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Finley Ray Clark, Julia Child, butter

"If you're afraid of butter, use cream"

I Love Me Some Butter

Finny and Julia Child know what the French know about butter.


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I LOVE to play Mah Jongg!  I always wanted to learn and I have no idea why.  Being the Martha junkie that I am, several years ago there was an article in her magazine, Martha Stewart Living about Mah Jongg sets and I fell in love with the tiles and the idea of owning a set.  Soooo being the true collector that I am, I bought one – PINK tiles of course!  I kept the set for years, sometimes opening it up to admire these mysterious tiles and wonder what they all meant because I surely had no clue.

About 5 or 6 years ago I was at work one day and heard one of the brokers talking about going to play Mah Jongg.  I couldn’t believe my ears and immediately I said to Haley, “oh you play? I want to learn” .  Haley invited me to join her group for an evening and they were kind enough to let a TOTAL novice play along with them, well actually Haley and I played together on one card.  That was my introduction and I was HOOKED!!  I played a few more times with them and brought along another friend, Bobbie who also worked with us and who had played when she was younger.  Talk about a CRAK addiction!  I wanted to form a group. I wanted to play every week.  Haley’s group was a little less formalized, they played when they could all get together.   It just so happens that shortly thereafter I was at my friend Gail’s mothers memorial service and somehow I must have uttered the word Mah Jongg – “Mah Jongg” up pipes Sarajane, one of Gail’s friends and soon to become one of mine – she knew how to play and wanted to play and was eager to form a group too.  Now we were three.  We got Haley to play with us a couple of times but her schedule didn’t allow her to join us on Monday nights.  I contacted my sister-in-law Stacey and asked her if she wanted to be in a weekly group and she did and she knew how to play too.  OH BOY – we had a group and we were ready to roll those dice and clack those tiles.

That was, as I said several years ago, and along the way our group has added and lost a member or two but we remain 5 determined committed women who LOVE to play this ancient game of chance and we play every Monday night which has led to our group’s name of Monday Night Mah Jongg Mavens. Corny but cute.  We had another name that I was partial to and not sure why it got dropped as time went on and that was “This is Not Your Mother’s Mah Jongg”.

And as time went on and my CRAK addiction took hold, it was only natural that I would want to collect some vintage Mah Jongg sets.  No new ones for me – I wanted the real thing, the aged smooth tiles worn by time and love to a smooth silky surface, the paint faded away on some but still retaining their original artistry.  OK, so truth be told I now own  a few, maybe several or some might say many sets. This is not an easy item to collect or display in terms of shelf space!  Nevertheless, I love my sets dearly.  Each one chosen because of its rarity, or the sheer beauty of the tiles themselves, particularly the depth of color of the vintage bakelite or style of the One Bams and the White Dragons (also known as Soaps).

Tonight I’m off to the Museum of Jewish Heritage to see a special Mah Jongg exhibition.  I know it will be more than a few sets on display, perhaps I’ll find out what drew so many American Jewish women to this game.  I’ve attached a link to an article that appeared in they New York Times in March about the game and the upcoming exhibition and a couple of photos of some of my vintage tiles.

Martha Stewart Living, pink mah jong mah jonng tiles

My first set - PINK of course!

mah jongg, mah jong tiles, Four Winds, Soap, one bam

Vintage Four Winds caramel backed Mah Jongg tiles- Soap and One Bam

mah jong, mah jongg tiles, bone and bamboo

Vintage Pung Chow Mah Jongg bone and bamboo tiles

Museums Special Section – Recalling the Craze for a Game of Chance – NYTimes.com.

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Seriously, there are several mandatory events that constitute the Fourth of July holiday.  I started to write “Now that the Government…” when I realized that perhaps I am the only one who reads this blog who remembers WHEN there wasn’t an officially designated Monday as a Federal holiday. Oops there I go again, digressing…back to the series of events that make the 4th of  July a real holiday!

Fireworks : That just goes without saying; firecrackers, poppers, sparklers, cherry bombs, Roman candles during the day and the big show at night.  If you live in Manhattan, you can view one of the best fireworks display in the country.  Macy’s sponsors this annual event and if you don’t get invited to a rooftop or want to stand on the FDR drive, you can always stay home in your air-conditioned apartment and watch the magnificent fireworks on TV.  And most towns sponsor their own individual displays.  We  in Ocean Grove have  neighboring towns on both sides who have a display – fireworks on Saturday night in Bradley Beach and in Asbury Park on Sunday!

The Parade: This is best observed in a small town and since Manhattan doesn’t have a parade, every other place will seem like a small town!  This year we watched Ocean Grove’s annual parade (see previous blog).  As with most small towns it is an all-encompassing community event; marchers include the police, the fire trucks, the Eagle Scouts, the school bands, kids on bicycles and in red wagons decorated with red, white and blue ribbons and crepe paper, Bagpipers, Bugle, Fife and Drum Corps, Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, Blue Birds and more, vintage cars, local businesses with banners advertising their services, VFW members, the Chamber of Commerce, political candidates and any and every organization that can organize a contingency, clowns, citizens dressed in Revolutionary garb and best of all – CANDY!!  Everybody throws candy at the parade watchers – the little kids LOVE this.  Penny candy is freely tossed to the crowds.

Concerts: Free concerts everywhere!  Boston has the Boston Pops Orchestra performing along the Charles, Manhattan hosts a concerts in Battery Park City and for me – we went to the Ocean Grove Summer Band’s concert in the Great Auditorium.  They performed such American holiday classics as Victory At Sea, Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy, Stars and Stripes Forever.

The Beach: The Fourth of July weekend used to be the official beginning of summer – that was when we all went to grammar school and didn’t get out for summer recess until the last week of June!! So this is the weekend where everyone wants to go to the beach – the pool – the lake.

The Cook-Out: or barbeque, or picnic, or backyard supper.  I love this holiday tradition, gathering family and friends to share a meal.  This year, we had no plans and I felt awful  and reminded Peter of last year when Chiara, Tom and Finley were here and my cousin Marian and Bob showed up and we started the day with a neighborhood outdoors brunch and ended it with a big cook-out in our backyard.  THIS YEAR we were fortunate to be invited to our friend, Joe’s house for a traditional backyard barbeque.  It was a timely invitation and the occasion served as a way for us to visit and meet Michael, Joe’s friend from San Fransisco.  Michael was delightful and we were delighted to meet him and look forward to his return for Labor Day festivities. And the food was delicious (as always).  We had the traditional fare of hot dogs, hamburgers and chicken, and potato salad and my Italian Jersey contribution – that would be the best tomatoes in the country prepared with Italian seasonings.

Cheeseburgers, hamburgers, hot dogs, 4th of July cook-out, barbeque chicken

Lunch is served

mozzarella, tomatoes, Jersey tomatoes, basil, vidalia onions, backyard barbeque, cook-out, fourth of July

Caprese Salad

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OR FINLEY VISITS THE MIDWEST AND GOES TO A HOE DOWN

Finny at the fair, amusement ride
Big Girl Ride

The Clarks took off to some town northwest of Chicago to attend a Hoe Down wedding!  Finley went too!!  Of course they went to an Agricultural Fair and Fin got to go on her first big girl ride by herself.  This photo makes you think she didn’t love it but she did.

fair, amusement park ride, Chicago
Look at me

agricultural fair
This is NOT a street fair

agricultural fair
And they had horses too

The wedding WAS a HOE DOWN in the middle of acres and acres of corn fields.  Casual dress was the order of the day and Miss Fin in her red white and blue seersucker sundress was a belle.  She even boldly walked onto to the dance floor to claim the FIRST DANCE with the groom!!! Oh boy Tom, you better watch out for this one.

corn fields
Do You Wanna Dance With Me?

And apparently he did!!!!

wedding first dance
The First Dance

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Wherever you spend the Fourth of July you are sure to be in the midst of a parade, fireworks and cook-outs OR on the beach, OR in an eating contest (UGH)!

Today IS the Fourth of July, however in Ocean Grove the annual parade was yesterday, Saturday.  I think they held then so more people would be around and not committed to a picnic somewhere else or maybe because in this town, they just don’t do those kind of things on a Sunday.

Ocean Grove fourth of July parade, bagpipers

Leading the Pipers

fourth of July parade, Ocean Grove

Cruising Along Main Avenue

Kazoo band, 4th of July parade, Ocean Grove

Red White and Blue Kazoo Band

Taylored 2 You, Ocean Grove parade, 4th of July

Taylored2You

Our friends, Susan and Jim were in the parade promoting their unique business, Taylored2You – a concierge and house watch service.

I’m pretty sure the latter is the real reason because right now it is just about noon and it is 90 degrees BUT you can’t go on the beach yet because it doesn’t open till 12:30pm and I think you know why!!!   Just as well, since we were running around yesterday I never got to the blog, there was the Parade, there was the Ice Cream Social, then we went to an Open House with Susan and Jim and that was a nice way to meet some new people and see a gorgeous house on the beach block of Main Ave.  Then it was the Happy Birthday America free concert held at the Great Auditorium and that was very nice too.  And then we walked along the boardwalk towards Bradley Beach to watch their fireworks.  We did note that when we were growing up and even well into our earlier years, people used to ooooh and ahhhhh and WOW and clap over the fireworks but hardly a sound was heard until there was one giant white fountain of a firework, filling up the sky and pouring forth wave after wave of sparks and sparkles!

Bradley Beach, fireworks on the boardwalk

Bradley Beach fireworks

And then….we had mixed berry shortcake, sitting outside in our backyard with candles and lanterns.  The stars were out, the air was cooler and it was a lovely way to end the day!

fourth of july, red white and blue dessert

Mixed Berry Shortcake

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I love great photography and am fascinated by what the eye of the camera sees when in the hands of a talented photographer and artist.  Today’s photos represent just that – the camera zoomed in on one little aspect and WOW!!! …and as I say, “Art is where you find it”.

Murray Head,

Compostiion on Burlap

photo by  Murray Head

Ocean Grove, jet streams, Murray Head

Jet Streams

photo by Murray Head

Koi in a Pond

photo by Murray Head

Ocean grove, spider, spider web

She Stores Her Food

photo courtesy of Murray Head

foot prints in the sand,

Leading Somewhere

photo courtesy of Murray Head

fourth of July, American flag, sky diving, air show

Celebrate America

photo by Murray Head



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Boston park, fountain

Oh to be this carefree, young and cute!

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Princess Finley Ray

Finny.Finley Ray Clark, crown, princess aurora,

I AM a Princess

princess aurora purse, Finny finley ray

Is it real?

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It hit 93 degrees yesterday (Wednesday) in New York  City.  What did you do to stay cool?  I went to the office and it was pretty cool there – Finley Ray went to Rhode Island to visit Auntie Kerry.

Finny, Finley Ray Clark,

Testing the waters

Finny, Fin, Finley Ray Clark,

Me and My Shadow

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I always think of my Dad on Father’s Day. I miss him and on this day, my thoughts have been about how much he was a part of my life.  However, this blog is not about what was but rather what is.  This morning it gave me great pleasure to send a Happy Father’s Day greeting to my son-in-law Tom, who is a terrific Dad.  It is such a joy to see Finny’s face light up and hear her shout out “Daddy, Daddy” when he comes home from work or has been gone for a while.  She truly has his heart and she’s his little princess. Here are a few photos of Finny and her Daddy taken over the past 22 months.

Tom Clark, Finley Ray Clark, fall day in Boston

This is the best way to go for a walk.

important phone call, Tom and Fin

Making an important phone call

Finny, Tom Clark, easter bonnet, easter hat

Oh Daddy, you're so funny

pink parka, Tom Clark, Finley Ray Clark

This is fun Daddy

pink fairy costume, Father's Day June '10, Finley Ray Clark, Tom Clark

I'm a Fairy Princess and this is my Daddy!

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