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YOU ARE NOT A GOOD PERSON

My goodness, is that all she could muster up??  We know Don for who he is ; and true to  the tried and true corollary that women love bad boys, he is the best looking bad boy on the small screen these days.  It’s just so obvious – he’s an open book;  He drinks publicly,  screws around publicly, he bullies his team, begrudgingly offers feeble praise once in a while,  drinks like  a fish and smokes like a chimney.  Don is arrogant-perhaps that’s part of the carefully constructed facade that he hides his true self-doubting, self-conflicted  persona.  After all, can you imagine leading a life that is entirely constructed on a lie and a deception and locking it all up inside, drowning the truth in alcohol and smothering his past with Lucky Strikes?

And yet we lust after him – why? He certainly isn’t the kind of man we’d  want to marry, or have our daughter marry! Yet seductive, handsome,  and reeking  with animal magnetism.  He’s not funny, almost humorless, and seems to have no interests beyond getting laid and getting accounts – in that order.  And yet…

MAD MEN, Don Draper, Sterling cooper, draper, Jon Hamn, Lucky Strikes

"right, no sports heros!"

Overall the episode was all about Peggy.  She is rapidly becoming one of the guys – note her lying down on the couch in her office.  Hey the guys do it all the time.  She meets some new friends, gets hit on by a lesbian and declares she has a boyfriend who is presently renting it (her vagina). Peggy ran through a gamut of emotions last night;  she is affronted by the news that Pete is going to be a father and in Peggy character true to form, she pulled herself up and offered sincere congratulations to her former lover.  She is excited by the daring of her new buds;  rule-breaking, left wing liberal artsy fartsy crowd.  How poignant was it when as she departs for lunch with the new friends and Pete greets the stodgy big wigs of Vicks, they exchange a long and meaningful glance? The answer  – VERY! Was that scene all about their unresolved sexual tension and bewilderment as how to handle it (both are clueless) OR was it as my friend Gail says – a contrast in the changing course of the business with the young and the reckless and the old guard?

Tune in next week, it’s sure to heat up and get better!!

Once again I’m really happy that a few more reader-contributed Six Word Memoirs were sent in! Oh this makes my Mondays much easier and your reading much more interesting.

This week’s contributions are:

Everyone is So Talented-Cool Contributors – submitted by Gail

Off Beach, In Shower, On Porch – submitted by Trish

If it weren’t hot, I’d paint – submitted by Jane

Isn’t it great that we’re getting in touch with our inner Ernest Hemingway?  I’m just fascinated by this concept and the more Six Word Memoirs I read, the clearer it becomes and actually easier.  At first I was bogged down by the question as it is posed; One Life, Six Words, What’s Yours? But then I realized (with a little help from reading The Smith magazine) that your Six Word Memoir could be philosophical, funny, timely, incidental or just a fleeting feeling of the day-which brings me to this very day;

Endless Summer Sounds Good to Me!– submitted by ME

One Life, Six Words, What’s Yours?



3 flags, POW-MIA flag, beach chairs, sand dunes, Ocean Grove

1 Umbrella, 2 Beach Chairs, 3 Flags

photo by Lori

orange stripe umbrella, Ocean Grove, beach day

Orange Striped Umbrella with Circle of Friends

photo by Lori

Ocean Grove, Jersey Shore, primary colors, beach day

Primary Colors

photo by Lori

Jewel colors, beach umbrella, Jersey Shore, Ocean Grove, beach,

Jewel Colors

photo by Lori

Low tide, Ocean Grove, Jersey shore, pastel beach umbrella

Pastel Umbrella at Low Tide

photo by Lori

wading pool, beach, Jersey Shore, Ocean Grove, colorful beach umbrella

A Wading Pool to Match the Umbrella

photo by Lori

Low tide, Ocean Grove, Jersey Shore, orange plaid umbrella

Orange Plaid Umbrella

photo by Lori

Tommy Bahama beach umbrella, low tide, Ocean Grove, Jersey Shore,

Tommy Bahama Legs

photo by Lori

How many times have you heard an expression or saying (and I mean one that you’ve heard all your life), and never knew where it came from?  This may just be the place you’ll find out!  In this column,  THE REAL MEANING OF COMMON PHRASES, I’ll endeavor to explore the origin of some commonly (and maybe some uncommonly)  used phrases and sayings that have become part of the American vernacular.  AND I NEED YOUR HELP – please send me any sayings and/or phrases you think the rest of us would like to know just how this expression evolved into our language.  You can send it to me through the comment section or at pbenjaytoo@gmail.com.  I look forward to hearing from you!!!

HIGH ON THE HOG

(Wealthy, Exalted)

This phrase is often meant to describe  someone living the good (high) life, which would imply wealth and eating the better cuts of meat, such as the shoulder and upper leg of the pig whereas paupers eat the trotters and belly. Imagining lords and ladies feasting on roasts certainly seems to be the right context of the phrase, however the origin is much more elusive.

pork belly, trotters, pork butt, pork shoulder, cuts of meat

Living High on the Hog

There are no references to living (eating) high on (or off) the hog in any of Chaucer’s or Shakespeare’s works.  The phrase high has meant exalted  and impressive in the UK since the 17th Century and in America since the early 19th Century.

Initially meaning to be living the high life and eating pork rather than actually eating the meat from high on the pig, it’s interesting to note that one of the earliest instances of this phrase in print comes from The New York Times in 1920;      Southern laborers who are “eating too high up on the hog” (pork chops and ham) and American housewives who “eat too far back on the beef” (porterhouse and round steak) are to blame for the continued high cost of living, the American Institute of Meat Packers announced today.

People have been eating pork for hundreds of years yet it seems that the actual phrase high on the hog, meaning the better cuts of meat  originated in the 20th Century in the United States and the phrase eat too far back on the beef never quite caught on.

 

OMG – where did those 24 months and 730 days go?  I am desperately trying to enjoy Finny’s birthday vicariously through photos!  And waiting for a possible Skype call.

From what I heard, Finley got to pick out her own outfit today which consisted of a princess tutu, a strawberry shirt and red ruby slippers.  That was this morning and she went to the playground and out to lunch – hope a photo of this outfit surfaces soon….

In the meantime, late this afternoon,  she changed her clothes and got to ride the carousel with Daddy!!! Look at how happy she is!!!!

Happy Birthday Finny, Finley Ray Clark, merry-go-round,carousel, Tom Clark

Happy Birthday Finley!

Ooooh the bad press, the distortions, the drama, the caricatures, the drinking, the Governor even!!!! So to set the record straight at least in this blog’s point of view, here are some real Jersey Shore photos!

Ocean Grove, fishing

Gone Fishing

photo by Murray Head

seagull, Ocean Grove, seagull in flight

Soaring Over the Water

photo by Murray Head

sand dunes, Ocean Grove, beach lockers

Here I go!

photo by Murray Head

Beach umbrella, beach chairs, Ocean grove, sand dunes

Gone for a Swim

photo by Lori

Ocean Grove, low tide, beach chairs, sand chairs

Low Tide

photo by Lori

TEN TIPS THURSDAY

If you live in New York City, these word are already in your vocabulary!  However, sometimes even I forget there’s a world out there that doesn’t just toss out Yiddish words in their everyday conversations – BUT everyone can…it’s not like dropping French phrases which might make you seem pretentious – you know like with sangfroid!

With a little practice, these words will be rolling off your tongue in no time.

  1. Oy Vey –  Is an expression expressing exasperation, dismay or grief.
  2. Kvetsh –  Most often used in English to mean complain, but in Yiddish it literally means to squeeze or press like if your shoes were too tight.
  3. Maven –  An expert, often used sarcastically.
  4. Chutzpah –  In Yiddish this denotes arrogance and nervy presumption and is NOT a compliment.  In English, it is used to convey courage and confidence.
  5. Klutz –  Literally means block of wood so it is used when to describe a dense or clumsy person.
  6. Bubbe –  We all have one – a Grandmother.
  7. Schlep –  To drag something around, most likely something you don’t need or are doing unwillingly.
  8. Nosh –  To nibble a light snack – like what we eat when we play Mah Jongg.
  9. Kibbitz –  This doesn’t translate easily; the word is similar to Kibbutz, a collective community or it can refer to verbal joking.  The English innovation is giving unwanted advice about someone else’s game.
  10. Mazel-Tov – Literally good luck and used to convey good wishes for what just happened, not a hopeful wish for some future event.
Yiddish humor, Hebrew, Yiddish cartoon, common Yiddish phrases

Shmendrick

Week 11 and we are deep into exploring the conspiracy theory of the assassination of President John F. Kennedy.  If you are just joining this exploration and want to “catch up” – you can click on the category Conspiracy Theory Wednesday and read this unfolding saga.

CIA counter-intelligence chief, Lee Harvey Oswald, KGB,American Friends of the Anti-Bolshevik Nations, Soviet Domestic Intelligence, Marina Prusakova, Gary Powers, Spas T. Raikin, Traveler's Aid Society

James Jesus Angleton

JAMES JESUS ANGLETON

In addition to Oswald, seven U.S. military men defected to U.S.S.R. between June 1958 and January 1960.  At least four of them, including Oswald, soon returned to the U.S.  This, and Oswald’s Marine spy training, suggests they were part of a false defector   program run by U.S. intelligence.  Gary Powers, whose 1960 spy flight was shot down over Russia, later said Oswald supplied the Soviets with vital U2 radar data.  In any case, Oswald received a government stipend and a nice apartment in Minsk and married Marina Prusakova, whose uncle was a colonel in the Soviet Domestic Intelligence.  In June 1962, Oswald returned home with his bride.  They were met by Spas T. Raikin, a Traveler’s Aid Society agent who was also Secretary-General of the CIA-connected American Friends of the Anti-Bolshevik Nation.  The State Department, advised by the FBI,  said Oswald had not expatriated himself and could resume U.S. citizenship.   Because a State Department “look-out” card wasn’t issued, he was able to renew his passport on 24 notice.

In January 1964, KGB agent Yuri Nosenko defected to the U.S., claiming the KGB never debriefed Oswald about his military background nor recruited him.  James Jesus Angleton, the  CIA counter-intelligence chief who handled Agency matters pertaining to the Kennedy assassination, subjected Nosenko to 1277 days of hostile interrogation and solitary confinement, but Nosenko stuck by this story.  Angleton later said, “A mansion has many rooms; there were many things during the period; I’m not privy to who struck John.”  If Angeleton didn’t believe Oswald was the lone assassin who “struck John”, neither could he prove that Oswald was a Kremlin-sponsored killer.


More iconic cocktails from the past, don’t you love the names?  And of course each one has an interesting derivation.

Screwdriver Technically a highball – but such an interesting one that it transcends the category.  Like many vodka drinks, it is relatively recent, dating back to just the 1950’s.  According to popular lore, this drink owes its name to an American oilman in Iran.  When he found himself without a swizzle stick, he did the job with a screwdriver.  The catchy name catapulted the drink to mass popularity, making it a brunchtime and lunchtime favorite with all those who prefer a little nourishment with their o.j. taken from Vintage Cocktails.

orange juice and vodka, swizzle stick,

Screwdriver

Sidecar Riding around in a sidecar can be a chilling experience!  There’s a lively dispute as to whether it was Harry’s or the Ritz in Paris as the place that a certain World War I officer ducked into and asked for a warming drink.  Over the years, this lovely cocktail has been corrupted by various bartenders who substituted Triple Sec for Cointreau and lime juice for lemon.   This one needs to stay pure to be fully appreciated.  taken from Vintage Cocktails.

motorcycle sidecar, Cointreau, brandy, Harry's, The Ritz, Paris

Sidecar Cocktail

Singapore Sling There are slings and then there are slings…so many recipes and no one seems to be able to agree on a single formula.  The most famous and certainly one of the earliest was created in 1915 by Ngiam Tong Boon, barman at the famous Raffles Hotel in Singapore.  The recipe, now nearly 100 years old is still spectacular.  taken from Vintage Cocktails.

Raffles, Ngiam Tong Boon, Singapore, gin, brandy, benedictine

The Singapore Sling


TASTY TIDBITS TUESDAY

“It’s cocktail time.  Few phrases flood the senses with such unimpeded a tingle of delight.  The mind rushes to imagine the astringent whiff of gin, the ice-cold silver shaker, the first pleasant trickle accompanied by the certainty that the world will soon seem a  much  better place than it appeared to be a better just a few minutes ago.

Like Marilyn Monroe, the cocktail has become one of the great cultural icons of the twentieth century. “ from Vintage Cocktails, Authentic Recipes and Illustrations from 1920-1960, by Susan Waggoner and Robert Markel.

Between the Sheets This after-Prohibition after-dinner drink was meant to seduce as well as settle.

1 oz. cognac

1 oz.  Cointreau

1 oz. dry Gin

Juice of two lemons, strained of seeds

Put plenty of cracked ice in a cocktail shaker, add the ingredients, and shake briskly.  Strain into a cocktail glass

This after-Prohibition after-dinner drink was meant to seduce as well as settle.  It accomplishes both.

Cuba Libre – The first Cuba Libre was mixed in Cuba in August 1900.  All too often this drink is sadly  presented as Rum and Coke – the recipe will bear out the difference.

1 small lime

Bacardi rum, limes, Cuba, cocoa cola

Curbre Libre

1 1/2 oz. Bacardi Rum

Cocoa Cola

Cut lime and strain juice into a tall Collins glass. Scrape peel clean, cut in pieces, and add the peel to the glass.  Pour in the rum. Muddle, working so that the sides of the glass are coated with liquid. Then add ice and Coca Cola.

The Daiquiri – As the story goes, it was invented in a malarial swampland in Cuba.  Rum was added to the drinking water as a fever preventative.  It was introduced to America by Navy Admiral Lucas Johnson in 1909.

1 1/2 oz. white rum

1 tsp. sugar

juice of 1 1/2 small limes-strained of seeds

Place rum, sugar and lime juice in a cocktail shaker with crushed ice and shake swiftly.  Don’t overmix, a good daiquiri should be ice-cold but not diluted in the least. Strain and serve at once.

Gimlet A real Gimlet is half gin and half Rose’s lime juice and nothing else.

7 & 7 – A classic composed of Seagram’s 7-Crown Whiskey and 7-Up

Mai Tai – Tahitian in name, the drink was made Victor (Trader Vic’s) in California in 1944.

1 oz. light rum

Trader Vic's, pineapple garnish, maraschino cherry, light rum, dark rum. mint

My Mai Tai

1 oz. dark rum

1/2 oz. curacao

1 1/2 tsp. simple syrup

1 1/2 tsp. almond syrup

Lime peel and a Mint sprig

Place rums, curacao and syrups in a cocktail shaker with cracked ice. Shake, strain into a chilled old-fashioned glass, and garnish with lime and mint. Serve with a straw and a stirrer.

Classic Manhattan

1 1/2 oz. rye

3/4 oz. sweet Vermouth

2 dashes of Angostura Bitters

Maraschino cherry

Place cracked  ice in a cocktail shaker and add rye or bourbon or blended whiskey, vermouth and bitters. Shake, strain into a chilled cocktail glass, add cherry.

Mint Julep Served at the Kentucky Derby around 1875, it became the official drink in the late 1830’s.

2 tsp. sugar

2 Tbs. water

6-8 sprigs of mint

6 oz. bourbon

Place sugar and water in a mixing glass and muddle until sugar is completely dissolved.  Add all but one sprig of mint and crush slightly to release the fragrance.  Let stand a few minutes, then transfer to a frosted Collins glass or silver cup like the traditional vessel for juleps. Fill the glass partially with crushed ice. Add bourbon, stir once, then add enough additional ice to fill the glass. Garnish with the reserved mint.

Pink Gin A favorite among British officers in India whose systems had difficulty with the food, climate and water.

4-5 dashes of Angostura Bitters

2 oz. gin

twist of lemon peel

Shake 4 or 5 dashes of bitters into a chilled cocktail glass. Tip the glass rolling from side to side until the bitters coat the inside of the glass.  Pour off excess. Gently pour gin into the glass, add a piece of cracked ice if desired, and garnish with a slim twist of lemon peel.

Rob RoyIt’s smokey auburn hue reminds us that Rob Roy’s real surname was Macgregor, with the nickname “Roy” given to denote his wild red hair.

1 1/2 oz. Scotch

3/4 oz. Sweet Vermouth

2 dashes of Angostura Bitters

Maraschino cherry for garnish

Pour scotch and sweet vermouth into a mixing glass with cracked ice.  Add bitters,stir and strain into a chilled cocktail glass into which the cherry has been already placed.

Invite your friends over to watch Mad Men and serve some of these truly Retro Cocktails.

Drink Responsibly