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The Federal Bureau of Investigagtion

Not necessarily healthy, mature love or balanced, equitable relationships negotiated between two or more adults.  No, instead it was more about obsession, control, immaturity, desperation,  loyalty, fidelity, commitment.

Let’s start with LIKE CRAZY.  Superbly acted by Felicity Jones and Anton Yelchin, LIKE CRAZY is a love story about two young college students who think they are in love.  They probably are in love or at least as they define love.  It seemed to have a lot to do with sex, fantasy and a disregard for life as it is with rules and boundaries as only two young people wrapped up in their own world perceive it.

Really it’s about love, that  beautiful precious emotional gift,  mishandled by two immature kids.  Basically that’s the problem here – Jacob and Anna are just too immature to grasp what love and commitment really mean.  Patience! That one word engraved on the bracelet given to Anna by Jacob was the key to creating a deep and lasting relationship.  They talked the talk, but couldn’t walk the walk.  Maturity knows patience, maturity understands that it isn’t necessary to indulge your every desire in order to be happy.

Final thought: Anna’s parents came off as way too liberal psuedo-hippies from another era.

J. Edgar

Now here is tale or two of twisted love….a doting mother whose love was controlling, compulsive and suffocating and lavished on a son eager for Mommy’s approval in all things.  Dame Judi Dench embodied the role of this overbearing and obsessive mother.  Edgar was her favorite, Edgar was destined to be a great man and she was the stage mother in the background, directing and advising on everything from the clothes he wore to commanding him to find the Lindberg baby.  Edgar was devoted to his mother, turning to her for counsel, revering her and escorting her to political functions as his date.  The only other woman in his life was Miss Gandy, his personal secretary who was not only the gate-keeper, she was also his trusted secret-keeper.

And then Clyde Tolsen is introduced to the Director of the FBI and in a swift series of meaningful glances, we know that Clyde is destined to be in Hoover’s life.  Almost laughably transparent in his intent, Hoover arranges for Tolsen to be accepted into the Bureau even though as a candidate, Tolsen has none of the desired qualities.  But he is tall and good-looking.  In this day and age, homosexuality is understood, acknowledged and acceptable in most circles.  NOT in those days.  It was apparent that J. Edgar was somewhat conflicted, alternating between  assuming an almost asexual ascetic life and craving the companionship that Clyde so eagerly offered.  Although there were moments of tenderness between Tolsen and Hoover, their relationship was not consumated, at least not in this depiction.  Poor Clyde was ever the faithful puppy dog sidekick, thankful for any random ear-scratching that Edgar rarely bestowed.  

We don’t know how much of this movie is based on fact or historical fiction.  After all, Hoover appeared to be a very private man and the only two people who could know the intimate side of him (Miss Gandy and Clyde Tolsen) did not talk!

Overall I found the movie interesting because it was a biopic, but I didn’t think it was an exceptionally good movie.  I expected more from Clint Eastwood than a laundry list of Hoovers triumphs and failures.  Of course it was hard for me to spend 2 hours in the life of a man who I believe was misguided by his obsessiveness and evil in his vindictiveness.  Also not for a minute was I not aware that DiCaprio was the actor behind the make-up.  I don’t know if that’s because of mis-casting or bad acting – I believe it to be the former.

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Bell telephone, desk set phone

BEECHWOOD 4-5789

You know this blog likes to take trips back into the world of long gone now – that is my own childhood and young adulthood, lol!  We’ve looked at classic cars, vintage board games and even phrases that have gone the way of the past.  Today I have a list of sounds your kids have probably never heard.

Gail, ever my faithful contributor, sent me a link to the  Mental__Floss website which is a true treasure trove of the odd, the strange, the creative, the inventive and certainly the nostalgic.  This post on their site is all about sounds of items and circumstances that have disappeared from our culture and everyday life.  When you hear/see them, I bet you’ll smile to yourself as each one brings back its own set of unique memories.  Enjoy the sounds of yesteryear!

http://www.mentalfloss.com/blogs/archives/106713

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Seamlessly weaving his story with flashbacks and the present,  director Sean Durkin presents a low-key thriller from the perspective of a young, unstable woman (think Black Swan).  The opening scene transports us to a seemingly bucolic setting, a slightly rundown farmhouse, men hammering and women mending, a couple of kids, in a remote area which is tucked into the hills of the Catskills.  We meet Martha who meets Patrick who quickly anoints her Marcy May,  and by doing so, rebirths her into a new life in the cult commune. His eyes tell it all; they’re penetrating, his look sinister yet seductive , his voice sincere (think Charles Manson).   This is a psychological thriller and within moments, apprehension and anxiety begin to mount.

From there, the story unfolds with Marcy May running away from the cult and going to live with her estranged sister.  They are awkward with one another;  Guilt weighing on Lucy, frustration consuming Ted (Lucy’s husband) and increasing paranoia in Martha.  Flashbacks fill in the blanks and introduce the viewers to the life Marcy May led under the strange manipulative  influence of Patrick.  

The present deals with Martha who is tortured by her twisted desire to go back to the commune and her revulsion of what went on there.  Her mind wanders back and forth between the past and the present, and she slips in and out of reality.   Martha resists telling her clueless sister where she was and with who, but wouldn’t you think that after the third totally inappropriate episode with  Martha, Lucy would persist in discovering the what and where of Martha’s last two years?  Instead  we hear  “What’s wrong with you”? Plenty!

By the time the movie ended, I was as paranoid as Marcy May; she got under my skin and I couldn’t shake her off. The baffling and somewhat infuriating ending only added to my distress.

Spoiler Alert: “All the children are boys”. “He only has boys”.  Who’s buried in the backyard? We see two or three white crosses in the backyard in the first scene.

Elizabeth Olsen(sister of the twins) makes her debut and leaves no doubt that she is on her way to a career in film.  John Hawkes is compelling, scary and yes sexy.  Sarah Paulson and Hugh Dancy co-star in this Sundance favorite.

Elizabeth Olsen, Sarah Paulson, John Hawkes, Sundance film festival, Marcy May

Martha Marcy May Marlene

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Thousands of runners on Verrazano-Narrows Bridge.

47,000 Runners Cross the Verazano Bridge

That’s the way it went down today for Mary Keitany today! 

We were up and out early today (the fall back time change helped) to have breakfast at Gracie’s,  a favorite all night coffee shop.  Although I would love to live downtown, there are some big pluses to the UES.  Can’t beat the convenience of our neighborhood plus my daughter and granddaughters live around the corner and once a year, the New York Marathon runs right past our building.

It is wonderful to gather out in front of the building, sipping our coffee and cheer on the first handicapped runners to sail past us as they speed downhill on 1st Avenue.  We live at the 18th mile mark and as the runners crest the slight rise at 85th St, it is downhill for them for several blocks.

This morning although the sun was shining, there was a nip in the air, so it was back upstairs to get a shawl and some gloves.  It wasn’t long before the sirens came roaring down toward us, signaling the approach of the first of the elite women.  Surprise! THERE WAS ONLY ONE WOMAN running toward us!  Mary Keitany, a small, wiry, woman sped by clipping along and NO ONE was behind her.   I’ve never seen this before.  Here we are, 18 miles into the race and only ONE woman is running past us.  We decided to time the interval between her passing and the next female runner.  It was 2 MINUTES!!!

People were screaming her name as she went by, clapping loudly and cheering wildly. 

More female runners appeared, as well as more handicapped participants.  Before the race started,  we were watching NBC news and it was stated that probably the elite men would be in Central Park at the Finish Line at 11:45am.  We figured that would put them passing us at about 11 am.   Sure enough, the sirens and flashing lights and the camera truck preceded a small but tight pack of very lean and muscular runners.  Their long-legged stride was something to behold and every year I marvel at the running machines these runners have trained themselves to be.

We have the routine down so about 15 minutes later,  Chiara, Finley and I headed upstairs to watch the winners cross the Finish Line on TV.   We sat down to watch and were surprised to see Mary still running AND with two women runners right behind her.  I couldn’t believe it – was this the mighty runner who was 2 minutes ahead of everyone else.  The two Ethiopean runners were gaining on her second by second.  This was the 26th mile, for God’s sake!  What a shame!  It was clearly obvious that Mary had run out of steam, and as the commentator said, the two women behind her could smell blood and they amped up their press.  Not a quitter by any means, Mary actually drew on some hidden reserve and kicked up her pace a bit.   But the die had been cast – she had run too fast for too long but not long enough.  It was heartbreaking to see her passed by Dado and Deba but it is a race and it’s not over until it’s over and this day it was over for Mary.

23  SECONDS is all that separated the Winner from the Third Place runner, Mary Keitany.

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Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung

In the opening scene of A Dangerous Method , we see a young woman screaming and fighting, desperately trying to escape the restraints of two men.  The carriage pulls up to a large building set in the beautiful landscape of Switzerland and she is dragged into the psychiatric hospital of Dr. Carl Jung.

As the movie unfolds, we are witness to both the  evolution of a burgeoning science as well as the growing relationship between Jung and Freud and Jung and Sabina (Keira Knightly).  At times, it was difficult to discern if the movie was a drama about an illicit love affair, the inner turmoil wrought on a physician who crossed a line or a historical pseudo-documentary about the struggle to get psychiatry recognized as a viable means to cure mental illness.

When a movie can’t decide which genre it is, it’s usually in the purgatory between the two.  I didn’t love the movie:  It was slow-moving, quiet, and fairly dry.  It’s not that I wanted to see  psychotic scenes such as there was in the movie, Quills.  No fortunately we were spared the fascination with excrement and masturbation.

In my opinion, the best part of the movie was watching Keira Knightly portray a severely mentally disturbed woman.  Sabina’s illness manifested itself in violent bodily contortions, grinding teeth, chin jutted out, eyes rolling wildly.  There have been some reviewers who called her performance over-the-top, however, I think Keira was extremely compelling.  And as her treatment progressed, she deftly portrayed a woman emerging from the depths of despair and depression to an articulate student of psychiatry,  only to become a renowned psychiatrist in her own right years later.

Viggo Mortensen played a somewhat arrogant Freud, stubborn and rigid in his beliefs, very well.  Michael Fassbender portrayed the elegant Carl Jung equally as well.

If you like period movies, this one is shot accurately and beautifully.  As for historical facts, we are allowed to peek into the lives of the two greatest psychiatrists of the 20th Century.  Perhaps to add some spice to the movie (sex sells anything, they say), you also get to be a bit of a voyeur as the affair between Jung and Sabina plays out.  Unfortunately or fortunately, the spice is not so much in the sex but in S&M foreplay.  Not quite titillating enough to be steamy but replete with historical facts, the movie, overall, is somewhat entertaining and adds another dimension in David Cronenberg’s exploration of the human mind.

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Actor and film director Roman Polański.

Roman Polanski

Two nights, two movies back to back !

It was HYSTERICAL – CARNAGE  (spoiler alert)

With the title CARNAGE, you don’t exactly expect to howl throughout the movie.  However, that’s what happened as the audience roared, laughed, snickered and giggled all the way through to the credits.  Roman Polanski‘s latest film is a not- quite-dark adaptation of a darkly humorous play.  Actually, instead of the black farce is was meant to be, I found it to be more light gray.

Fifteen minutes into the movie, I thought I was watching a comedic version of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolfe? .   I’m not sure it was meant to be quite that funny but it was. I wondered if it was hysterical because the characters were more like caricatures?  Maybe, but for that matter, Martha and George caricatures.  No one laughed out loud watching Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton turn a social evening into a knock-down, drag-out verbal battle waged throughout the night.

Shot in the style of a Woody Allen film, four people are figuratively locked in the Brooklyn living room of Penelope (Jodie Foster) and Michael (John C. Reilly) Longstreet, the parents of Ethan.   Presumably an amiable meeting is to take place between Nancy and Alan, the parents of Zachary who attacked  Ethan and disfigured him by knocking out some teeth.   These graphic descriptive accusations are  sharp retorts from the horrified Penelope.  She is just so shocked by the parenting skills or lack thereof of Nancy (Kate Winslet) and Alan (Christoph Waltz).  Nancy and Alan just want  to avoid a lawsuit and get the hell out of there! NOT an easy task ! Although they make it out the door a couple of times and even get as far as the elevator, they cannot leave. They are repeatedly pulled back into the web of guilt woven relentlessly by Penelope.

Jodie Foster was well-cast as the uptight, self-righteous, know-it-all Bohemian mother hen.  She is so brittle, you’re sure she will crack and crumble the next time she tightly wraps her arms around herself.  She was believable as Penelope up to a point.  However, by the end of the movie, Jodie is shrieking like a banshee with her face contorted like an appopletic lunatic.  I blame Mr. Polanski for this over-the-top performance.  A shame, because prior to this melt-down, Penelope and her shoulds were amusing.

Kate Wynslet delivered a superb performance as the resigned wife of a rude, self-involved attorney a la Betty Draper (Mad Men), right up to the blonde French twist hair-do.  The audience roared when the  prim and properly groomed Nancy tosses her cookies onto the coffee table and all over Penny’s precious Oskar Kokoschka book – OH the horror of it all!!

The films best lines were all Alan’s, with his omnipresent cell phone. After the 15th annoying ring, I lost count.  A rude, crude misogynist, bored with his wife, his life and certainly this ridiculous charade of meeting.  The cobbler doesn’t do much to assuage his ennui, but the single malt scotch is right on.

Michael morphs from Mr. Nice Guy into a blustering insensitive boor who openly admits to freeing or murdering (depends on who’s speaking) his daughter’s hamster.  I felt the transition was not clear or obvious, again this is the work of the director.

And the hamster lived happily ever after!

I was going to comment on It was HistoricalA Dangerous Method but this post is already long and it’s after midnight, so check back in a day or two!

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Contagion  is what happens when the wrong pig meets up with the wrong bat. 

Sitting at a bar, you reach into the bowl of peanuts, a waiter picks up an empty glass, the school nurse takes a young boy’s temperature…all these and more seemingly innocent and every day occurrences are caught on camera and through the genius of editing, the lens lingers  ever so slightly longer than normal.  And there you have it; the path of a rapid, virulent, super bug virus as it swiftly travels along the road paved with human touch.  We don’t realize how much of what we do, and what we touch affects other people until something like this heretofore undiscovered and unnamed virus begins its deadly trip around the world.

The movie moves forward while flashback snippets in the form of video surveillance camera footage step backward and show us just how Beth (Gwyneth Paltrow) became patient zero and set off an outbreak of MEV-1 and a pandemic nightmare.  The portentous device of posting the day and date timeline on the screen brings the horror of how quickly a virus can multiply and spread exponentially, decimating the huge populations of such cities like, Los Angeles, Chicago, Minneapolis, and more.

Director Steven Soderberg brings his genius of fast-moving, everything-happening-at-once style he used so effectively in Traffic to this his latest work.  There’s no grandstanding, no spiritual or religious overtones to wring out your emotions.  No, this film plays it straight and factual.  We are terrified, horrified and shaken, but not because we’ve been exposed to (no pun intended) to half-dead zombies stumbling across the screen.  Instead, the camera pans through a deserted airport, sweeps over trash littered streets and lines of desperate citizens standing in line for government hand-outs of food. 

The real heroes in this movie are intelligent government employees and level-headed scientists.  Matt Damon gives a fine performance as the cuckolded husband of Beth, his best moment is at the hospital when he fails to comprehend the fact that his wife is dead.  Kate Winslet delivers a solid performance as the field agent who gets sent out to Minnesota to head up government disaster containment. 

By far in my opinion, Jude Law was the outstanding star in the movie.  It was hard to believe that the scuzzy guy with the bad complexion and rotten teeth was really Jude Law.  Playing a disgruntled left winged blogger, he incites the masses with his inflammatory, accusatory diatribes against the CDC and the pharmaceutical companies.  Conspiracy theories are full blown! 

This movie is certainly worth the price of admission.  It’s a  brilliantly directed film dealing with a terrifyingly grim subject, and one that the audience quickly realizes is all to close to reality.   With SARS, H1N1, AIDS and ebola and ecoli outbreaks in our recent past, this movie resurrects the fear of contagion and births new concerns about biological warfare…and well it should.

A coronavirus that may cause SARS. (transwikie...

SARS Virus

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It’s a sunny Sunday in October, one of those peculiar days in that time of the year when it’s warmer outside than it is in the house.  I feel like I have to open the windows to let some warm air in.  The angle of the sun is just so warming, I wish I was sitting in the back yard instead of the cold living room.  Peter is replacing some of the screens in the doors with storm glass and that for sure is a sign summer is over!

1. The Morning Glories are getting really scraggly and dying, and pots of purple, rusty red, orange and yellow mums are omnipresent on porches all over town.

2. We made our seasonal pilgrimage to Delicious Orchards, loading up on apples and cider donuts.  If this were summer, we’d be at Matt’s buying corn and tomatoes.

3. Hard as it might be to believe, I have packed away my flip-flops and even my Tevas, not sure how my feet are going to react to real shoes.

4.  Somewhere between Labor Day and Columbus Day, the urge to take the crock pot out overcomes me and I begin to think about Hearty Beef Minestrone, Chilli, and One Pot Chicken.  Slow cooked meals are a hallmark of Autumn.

5. The air conditioner units are out of the windows and put into storage, the door-draft snakes are out of storage and the lawn furniture is cleaned and ready to store for the winter.

Mum's the Word!

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This week marks the month anniversary of Occupy Wall St.  So it’s tim e I gave it some press in the blog, after all…it began here! 

At first, I, like millions of others, thought this fairly small group of protestors would hold a rally, probably march around and then go home.  NOT!  Like a virus, the protest multiplied quickly and the core grew larger and more vocal.  Not particularly organized, the group has been able to sort itself out as a collective force and a cohesive community.  And like a virus, the movement spread as it found other receptive host areas around the world.  Later tonight or this week, I hope to give you another post wherein you’ll see some interesting parallels. 

I don’t need to write too much about Occupy Wall St. because it is in the news every day.  Especially here in New York City, we are almost hourly informed of where they are, what park they will camp out in, what the Mayor has to say about it all and which of the protestors has been beaten, knocked down or pepper-sprayed by police, not to mention the reports of how much money is being spent by law enforcement to keep everything and everyone under control.  The funny thing is, I don’t think they’re out of control at all.

Lastly as a prelude to some pictures, I’d like to quote what seems to be the mission statement on the web site Occupywallst.org – OF COURSE there’s a web site!!! And an agenda!

Occupy Wall Street is leaderless resistance movement with people of many colors, genders and political persuasions. The one thing we all have in common is that We Are The 99% that will no longer tolerate the greed and corruption of the 1%. We are using the revolutionary Arab Spring tactic to achieve our ends and encourage the use of nonviolence to maximize the safety of all participants.

Occupy Wall Street Agenda

Showing events after 10/19. Look for earlier events
Wednesday, October 19
5:00pm

 Open Forum: Andrew Ross “Is Student Debt a Form of Indenture?”
6:00pm

 Open Forum: Jennifer Saunders “Teachers for Justice Now”
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Thursday, October 20
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Friday, October 21
1:00pm

 Solidarity Event: Stop “Stop and Frisk”
6:00pm

 Information Front Desk Meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
8:30pm

 Empowerment and Education Committee meeting
Saturday, October 22
2:00pm

 Solidarity Event: National Day of Protest to Stop Police Brutality, Repression and the Criminalization of a Generation
3:00pm

 OccupyCUNY Radical Teach-In!
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Sunday, October 23
6:00pm

 Internet Working Group meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Monday, October 24
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Tuesday, October 25
5:00pm

 Internet Working Group meeting
6:00pm

 Information Front Desk Meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
8:30pm

 Empowerment and Education Committee meeting
Wednesday, October 26
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Thursday, October 27
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Friday, October 28
6:00pm

 Information Front Desk Meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
8:30pm

 Empowerment and Education Committee meeting
Saturday, October 29
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Sunday, October 30
6:00pm

 Internet Working Group meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Monday, October 31
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Tuesday, November 1
5:00pm

 Internet Working Group meeting
6:00pm

 Information Front Desk Meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
8:30pm

 Empowerment and Education Committee meeting
Wednesday, November 2
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Thursday, November 3
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Friday, November 4
6:00pm

 Information Front Desk Meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
8:30pm

 Empowerment and Education Committee meeting
Saturday, November 5
9:00am

 Solidarity Event: Move Your Money – Bank Transfer Day
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Sunday, November 6
6:00pm

 Internet Working Group meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Monday, November 7
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
Tuesday, November 8
5:00pm

 Internet Working Group meeting
6:00pm

 Information Front Desk Meeting
7:00pm

 General Ⓐssembly
8:30pm

 Empowerment and Education Committee meeting
Showing events until 11/9. Look for more

Events shown in time zone: Eastern Time

Occupy Wall St. New York city

Peace Be With You

Marching to Pretoria

"Join the Navy and see the world"

Veterans for Peace

occupy wall st. new york city, 99%

We Are the 99%

occupy wall st. new york city,

The American Dream

occupy wall st., new york city,

A Show of Force

Chase Manhattan bank, occupy wall st.

Chase Bank

occupy wall st, new york city

LOVE

occupy wall st

There's a LAW about wearing masks in a demonstration!!!

All photos courtesy of Murray Head

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This is CDC Clinic Chief Nurse Lee Ann Jean-Lo...

Flu Shot

I just looked at my last post and realized it was a week ago! Where have the past 7 days gone or for that matter the last two weeks?

I went to the doctor’s the first week of October and got a flu shot; the next day I got a sore throat, and the next day the sore throat got worse and by the third day I could hardly talk and spent the day sucking on green tea drops and Hall’s honey lozenges.   What made that third day worse was the fact that we did an antique show.  The night before we spent 3 hours setting up and were there all day Saturday and it was pretty much a bust as far as I’m concerned.  The sales were SO SLOW and SO SMALL, it wasn’t worth while at all.  NOW, we should have known better; first of all it was Yom Kippur – granted Ocean Grove is pretty much a Christian community but really now!  Then it was an absolutely beautiful day and the town held its Fall Harvest Festival which I understood was just MOBBED!  But did anyone on the street know there was an antique show going on near the Great Auditorium?  Apparently NOT.  Lesson learned, will not do that again.

The next day I worked and the income for that day was certainly less than the effort – overall not a very lucrative weekend and I used up a box of tissues blowing my nose while my  sinuses drained and then drained some more.  Mmmmm I think I’m probably entering into the TMI zone – Sorry!

When I started this blog over a year and a half ago, I made a decision to write about life, love, friends, family, events, movies, news, politics, recipes…well just about anything whether it be Smooth or Crunchy just like my favorite PB & J sandwich.  I even stated that I knew it would be essentially what every other blog is and that is: an egomaniacal stream of consciousness.  I did however also decide that I would not use the blog as my personal online diary, documenting every thought that crossed my mind or every problem, every family event, everything going on in my life, my husband’s or my kid’s.

And the reason I’m bringing this up is my way of telling you all that the reason  a week has gone by since I wrote a blog is that there is a LOT going on in my life at this time that has kept me distracted.  And of course as life would have it, many incidents have clustered together to make this a very stressful time.  I know in the past sometimes I have litanized a series of crazy events and done so in a satirical tongue in chic  but not this time.   Life has become too serious at the moment but I’m still here and am not giving up on my blog or my readers so hang in guys, there’s more to come.

So now it’s been 10 days; I’m still blowing my nose and got a cold sore from all that action and although the sore throat is gone, I am coughing and then coughing again!

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