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It’s a great day for the Irish and this year St. Patrick’s Day fell on one glorious pre-spring day in New York City. The sun was shining all day, the temperature was mild and the crowds were huge! It was a great day for a parade and for leaving work (long lunch hour?) to watch the parade. So I did. And being the good blogger that I am-NOT – I left my camera home and my new Flip video. Just think of the fab photos I could have taken today. Instead what you see is off my blackberry and well, Oh Well…. Also since I always like to make sure when something goes wrong, it is at least partially Peter’s fault, most of the photos are of parade marchers walking away from me rather than towards the camera. Why? Because Peter got there first and told me where to meet him and he was on the shade side of the Avenue and that put the camera in the shade – I had to wait till the marchers past me so I could have the sun shining on them and not back-lighting (oh that is way too technical). Anyway I was able to snap a few good ones of my favorites which are the bagpipers. They are so fabulous and the mournful sounds of Amazing Grace always makes me weepy.
The marchers came from all over – we saw a very large contingency from Londonderry , New Hampshire. There were several units of ramrod straight Marines and of course New York’s beloved Fireman and Policemen. The Emerald Societies from both departments were out in full force. Step Dancers, Fife and Drum Corps, large delegations from various counties all walked by smiling, waving and wishing all a Happy St. Paddy’s Day. Lots of beautiful colleens, some in native garb and others waving bright green flags. And then there were the I’m feeling no pain and it’s okay to look like a jerk on St. Paddy’s Day.
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Sunday afternoon, we walked over to Ocean Pathway, where lots of people were standing around. It was eerily quiet – bystanders gathered in groups of two or three and everyone talked softly, as if not to wake the dead…embers. The sound of the giant shovel clawing at the rubble and remains was surreal. The gray mist shrouded the ghastly site and we walked on sooty ground and noted hundred of black spots where burning embers had landed.
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Amazing New Fire Photos By Edward Wyzykowski of Ocean Grove.
I had planned on posting some photos I took on Sunday of the aftermath of the fire – but before I do, I wanted to share these amazing photos that were published today on Blogfinger. These were taken at the height of the conflagration. Unnerving to say the least and after seeing them and knowing my own pictures were taken around 6:45am it illustrates how quickly the fire was able to consume the properties.
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This video was posted on NJ.com – news
http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2010/03/fire_in_neptune_spreads_throug.html
Please copy and paste and it should bring you to the page of the web site with a slide show of photos and the video is halfway down the page.
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5:00 am – still snuggled under covers, we hear sirens wailing down Broadway.
6:15am – my cell phone rings downstairs and I don’t get to it in time. Look at the missed call and it was Susan. Call her back – she is yelling into her cell phone over the roar of the wind and called to tell me that the Manchester Inn burned down and several houses were burning too. In two minutes I know I ‘m not going back to sleep and I tell Peter I’m going. He really doesn’t want to get up but doesn’t want me to go alone. So believe it or not (and those of you who know us, know….) we got up, threw on some clothes and drove over to Main Avenue. Stepping out of the car we were hit by the smell of the smoke. And looking farther west down Main we could see a wall of smoke that extended from the fire on Ocean Pathway to Main Avenue We left the car in front of the Hardware Store and made our way down Pilgrim Pathway. There were orange cones on Ocean Avenue at Main, at Central Avenue and Main, at Pilgrim Pathway and actually almost anywhere you looked north of Main Ave.
The wind was howling, it was raining and as we stood in front of the Auditorium we could only see about 50′ in front of us. The wall of dark gray smoke was more like a house, not a wall. Everything was enveloped in this ominous gray cloud. We encountered a man who was walking around the Great Auditorium with a coal shovel and he told us he was looking for embers that were landing close to this famous structure.
Next move was to the Auditorium Pavillion to change batteries and assess just how close we could get. Walking past the tent structures up to Central Avenue it was difficult to see anything – so many fire engines, so much smoke. Some people were moving left and we followed them to Bath Avenue, the street that runs parallel and to the north of Ocean Pathway. There the horror and scope of what was happening was made real for us bystanders.
Bath Avenue is a narrow street and we were able to stand on the sidewalk opposite the houses on fire. This had to be about 6:45am and 3 of the houses had already burned beyond salvage. The firemen just kept pouring water on these houses and the fire would keep popping up along a roof line or somewhere in what was left of a house. The firemen tried to stop it from spreading but this was fairly impossible. I saw one house, a green house with siding and it was scorched so badly, I wondered if it would just ignite some place too.
I stood there crying, this was such a tragic scene and one every Ocean Grove homeowner dreads and fears and knows “that there but for the grace of God goes…”. Looking at these burnt out shells, emotions running in high gear, the house, yes – BUT the belongings, the treasures, the photos, the memories all gone up in smoke so to speak. Dear God, my heart goes out to these residents. Finally cold and wet through and through, Peter and I walked around to Ocean Pathway to see if we could now see anything of the ruins of the Inn. Not really, just the eerie sight of the Manchester Inn’s little car still parked out in front. The labyrinth of hoses was mind-boggling – running east to west on the Pathway, south to north from Main Ave to the Pathway, hoses up and down Bath Avenue, hoses laying along Beach Avenue. Then as I was walking back to our car, I noticed the firemen laying ladders alongside the big beautiful house on the northwest corner of Beach and Ocean Pathway. I couldn’t bear to watch another historical Victorian go up in flames.
We thought we might have breakfast at Nagle’s but it hadn’t opened yet. Then we got word that the water pressure on Main Avenue was greatly diminished and the water was running out brown. Thinking better of that idea, I assumed that our cottage was far enough away not to be affected by the water situation – WRONG!!!
The cats got bottled water and I hope to shower before bedtime.
This has been a day of anguish, of introspection, of concern, and a deep appreciation and thankfulness for the bravest of the brave – The firemen and I assume some of the many companies that responded to Ocean Grove’s call for assistance, are volunteer fire houses. Thank you West Long Branch, Neptune, Asbury Park, Spring Lake, Allenhurst, Bradley Beach, Shark River Hills, Avon , Deal, Belmar, Ocean and please forgive me if I omitted some, there were just so many trucks and firemen everywhere.
Just like a victim of 3rd degree burns, our town has been indelibly scarred.
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And they call this Pot Luck? What a meal! Eight of us gathered Friday evening at the home of Trish & Ron who live on Main Avenue. They have a big beautiful home with a fantastic dining room and a table large enough to seat eight comfortably and Editthat wasn’t even with all of the leaves.
Guests included Heide, who divides her time between Belgium, Ocean Grove and California, Carol, a full-time resident who runs The Ocean Grove Trading Post, Jim and Susan, full-time entrepreneurs (I’ll be doing a blog about their business in the near future)in Ocean Grove, and Peter and I, the Ocean Grove part-timers.
You had to know with this group, Pot Luck wouldn’t be your Ham & Bean, Macaroni & Cheese church supper type. We started the evening off with liberal libations and small gourmet pizza slices – delicate and delightful. Oh and I forgot to say right up front that our hostess is a baker of renown and when we walked in, the table was set beautifully and two enormous racks of individual pies were flanking the centerpiece of flowers and the aroma was mouth-watering. And then we sat down to an array of delicious dishes. While we were chatting away before dinner, Ron and his guest chef of the evening, Jim, were in the back yard grilling lamb chops that had been previously marinated in Ron’s own special marinade. So rare, so beautifully charred on the edges, a real treat. We had a chicken dish that I truthfully have no idea how Heide made it or what was in it besides chicken. What I can tell you is that I had two helpings and the flavor was so familiar, it took me to the second helping to remember where I had savored this kind of dish before – my Grandmother Schmidt used to make any meat delectable with the same kind of sauce and seasoning that Heide used, and I have had steak at Heide’s home and she did some similar magic with that too. I think it’s some kind of Germanic thing that these great cooks do. Carol created an artful arugula salad that was crisp and fresh and chock full of good things. Susan was on vegetable duty and she brought us seasonal vegetables (almost locivore) -they were roasted to perfection. With 3 of the 5 woman having Italian ancestry, of course we had a pasta dish but no ordinary red sauce (a/k/a gravy to those who know) for this group. I contributed a rigatoni and cannellini bean and broccoli dish and I thought it was very good.
And then the piece de resistance – the pies came out! Two big trays; mini pecan pies and apple pies. Well anyone who knows Trish knows that her apple pies are not only to die for but we all tell her she should sell them – so I immediately said, “I’m only having apple and besides I don’t like pecan pie, it’s too sweet”. WRONG – Jim, our N’awlins native proclaimed the pies to be perfect. Was it curiosity, arm-twisting ( lol,lol) or an insatiable appetite for dessert, well maybe all of the above – even though I made the arm-twisting part up! I took half of a mini pecan pie and the flavors just swirled around in my mouth. This was not the sticky, sweet, gooey glop that I always thought all pecan pies tasted like- Oh No, this was smooth, creamy, flavorful and not too sweet. Trish let us in on her secret but unless given permission, far be it from this blogger (who wants to be invited back!) give away any culinary secrets.
And after many hours of laughter and even some after dinner cordials, we all went home and that ladies and gentlemen is Pot Luck in Ocean Grove.
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What do you think about these recent revelations?
Red wine can help you lose weight. I’ll have the Pinot Noir please.
Don’t carry your newborn in a pouch-like sling, the baby could suffocate.
Eric Massa says he tickled, okay maybe it was a grope and then denies he groped. He crossed the line – the Equator, and maybe that wasn’t the only one.
Bachelor Bob gets married but not to his reality show pick. I’m shocked.
Rush Limbaugh said if the health care plan goes into effect, he will move to Costa Rica in 5 years. I say why wait?
Spring might actually be “around the corner”.
A meal based salad is fattening! 1400 calories in Chilli’s Explosion salad
There’s a coyote in Central Park and has been seen in Chelsea too.
You can write your own epitaph – join the Coffin Academy.
The Insane Clown Posse! Celebrate murder and decapitation. Oh to be a Juggalo.
Lindsay Lohan sues E-Trade for 1M. You didn’t really think she’s the “Milkoholic” in the commercial did you???
Nascar drive Carl Edwards rammed the car of Brad Kesselowski at 196 mph. And he didn’t get fined or suspended!
Feel Free to Rant here….
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Jeff Bridges-Best Actor INDEED
March 10, 2010 by pbenjay
I just came home after seeing Crazy Heart and am more convinced than before that Jeff Bridges truly deserved the Best Actor Academy Award. He was convincingly the aging, washed up, alcoholic country singer.
The best actors take the risks. And they make it look easy, so easy in fact that you don’t even think they’re making it look easy. Jeff Bridges as Bad Blake was an outstanding example of an actor willing to let it all hang out, both figuratively and literally. At 60 years old, he was brave enough to take off most of his clothes and let’s be honest, he wasn’t exactly sexy in his tighty whities. Actually it was the scene in the movie where he vomits and lays down on the bathroom floor wearing only his underwear – that was when it really hit me….he was a drunk, moaning and then passing out. Every expression, every movement of his body…. and then I realized, he’s NOT ALONE in this room; the cameramen, the lighting people, the grips, and the electricians, the script reader, set decorators, make-up and on and on are all around him – it’s almost unbelievable that he was so …. vulnerable!
And then as I said in my previous Oscar-related blog, when you compare his performance to that of his competition, there really wasn’t any competition. That’s not to say that George Clooney and Morgan Freeman and Colin Firth aren’t great actors – they are. The role and the depth of your character certainly plays a huge part in your ability to bring an Oscar home. Even though you often read in a review the statement that the actor brought depth to the role , there are some roles that just don’t allow an actor to stretch. This blog is not about criticizing the other nominees or their roles; it’s only about singing the praises of Jeff Bridges in what surely was his best role ever. Best Actor – Jeff Bridges Indeed!
Jeff Bridges as Bad Blake
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