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February is about to end and this being the last Thursday of the month brings our MOST ROMANTIC movies list to an end.  I have 10 more movies to list and a bonus film, strongly suggested to me by my nephew, Justin.

  1. How Stella Got Her Groove Back Again (1998) – Well, one way to get your groove back is to groove with a hunky, good-looking stud 20 years younger than yourself.  Taye  Diggs  Bassett won a NAACP Image award for her performance.
  2. Bridget Jone’s Diary (2001) – Rene Zellweiger won this Brit part over two Brittish actresses: Emily Watson and Helen Bonham Carter. AND she gained 25 pounds and earned a Best Actress nomination.
  3. Shrek (2001) – He doesn’t want to get involved and she’s not happy that he’s green and ugly. Howver, the wannabe Princess is really an ogre herself so in the end, all’s well and they live happily ever after to the tune  of hundreds of millions of dollars at the box office.
  4. Love Actually (2003) – This is one of my all-time favorite movies;  Peter and I watch it every Christmas holiday season.  We laugh and always cry over Emma Thompson’s pain caused by her husband’s interest in a sexy co-worker. There are TEN different love stories unfolding in this romantic comedy. I LOVE Hugh Grant, Bill Nighy is hysterical, Colin Firth is sincerely endearing and who doesn’t love Liam?
  5. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004) – Jim Carey and Kate Wynslet in this romance/sci-fi movie. Charlie Kaufman won an Academy Award for his original screenplay.  Sometimes you need an outside force to discover what you knew all along.
  6. The Notebook (2004) – This is an epic love story based on the beloved best-selling novel by Nicholas Sparks.  Rich girl falls for poor boy, they are separated by WWII and ultimately find each other again seven years later.  Ryan Gossling and Rachel MacAdams
  7. Pride and Prejudice (2005) – A classic romance based on a classic- Jane Austen‘s novel of the same title.  Keira Knightly and Matthew Macfayden prove that infatuation beats out social obstacles.
  8. Brokeback Mountain (2005) – This Western was one of the first to feature a love affair between two men. Critically acclaimed around the world, winning many awards at festivals and nominated for Best Picture, starring Heath Leger and Jake Gyllenhaal.
  9. Twilight (2008) – The vampire romance that captured the hearts of teens and adultsarlts around the world.  Girl meets boy, boy is a vampire – Kristen Stewart and Robert  Pattinson heat up the screen on and off.
  10. Slumdog Millionaire (2008) – Another romance  on and off the screen, Freida Pinto and Dv Patel quickly discover the intense chemistry between them. The movie won Best Picture and seven other Oscars.
  11. BONUS! Rocky (1976) – Small time boxer gets a once-in-a-lifetime chance to fight the heavyweight champ and along the way falls in love with his manager’s sister.  Everyone who has seen it knows the line, “Yo, Adrian” – but the most important lines in the movie are the last two;Rocky,”Where’s your hat”?  (Rocky has just won the championship but is mostly concerned with taking care of Adrian),then ” I love you”!, “No, I love you”!

    Sylvester Stallone,Rocky Balboa, Adrianne

    Yo Adrian!

The word "chocolate" originates in M...

Hot Cocoa

If you’ve been faithfully reading this blog, then you know that I’ve been all about February being the month of RED, as in American Heart Month and Valentine’s Day.  Ahhhh but of course February is also all about  CHOCOLATE.

Here in New York City, Maury Rubin’s City Bakery celebrates HOT CHOCOLATE like nobody else. They hold an Annual Hot Chocolate Festival every February;  each day City Bakery offers a special Hot Chocolate such as Bourbon Hot Chocolate,  Banana Hot Chocolate, Malted Milk Hot Chocolate and on and on and on.  I used to try to get there at least once during February to experience the world’s greatest hot chocolate.  Unfortunately, most of February is usually spent bemoaning my weight which has been enhanced over the holidays OR it’s Lent and I, in the spirit of sacrifice (read dieting lol) decide to give up chocolate!  This year with only a handful of days left in the month, I’m committed to a 17 day diet and even if I fasted for two days, I think the caloric intake of one cup of Maury’s hot chocolate would put me over the calorie count edge 😦 THEY MAKE IT OUT OF MELTED CHOCOLATE !!!!  Below is a link to City Bakery’s web site – http://www.thecitybakery.com/hot-chocolate.html

But if you don’t live in New York City, try these two delicious make-at-home Hot Cocoa treats.

Milk Chocolate and Peanut Butter Hot Cocoa

2 cups whole milk

1 cup heavy cream

5 oz milk chocolate chopped (1 cup)

1/4 cup creamy peanut butter

Warm milk and cream in a medium saucepan overa medium-low hear.  Add chocolate, and whisk until melted and combined.  Continue to warm mixture until thick, about 5 minutes.  Whisk in peanut butter until smooth.

Dark Chocolate Hot Cocoa

2 cups whole milk

1 cup heavy cream

5 oz bittersweet chocolate chopped (1 cup)

2 TBS light-brown sugar

1/4 tsp grated fresh nutmeg (probably use ground)

Warm milk and cream in a medium saucepan over a medium-low heat.  Add chocolate.  Whisk until melted and combined.  Add sugar and whisk until dissolved.  Continue to warm mixture until thick, about 5 minutes.  Whisk in nutmeg.

Recipes from Martha Stewart Living

Six Word Memoir Monday!!

The Pageant Of Childhood

Image via Wikipedia

The day is quickly slipping awayMe 

My days/life so often feel like they’re quickly slipping away that I decided I should begin this blog with my own Six Word Memoir.

And from some faithful readers:

Bought ski pass -now love snow! – Anonymous

A birthday again I am blessed – Rachel

Snow, snow, melt, sleet, more snow – Susan in the Grove

And from the “book”…

Soul’d out so I could prophet – Gotham Chopra

Strange name. Transparent shame. Instant fame – Bumble Ward

In the office. It smells here. –Meera Parthasarathy

I am trying in every regard – Lionel Shriver

Birth, Childhood, Adolescence, Adolescence, Adolescence, Adolescence… – Jim Gladstone

Happiest when ignoring huge financial debt – Ayanna Bryan

Looking forward to hearing from a few more readers next week.



It’s not that it seems like yesterday…but hard to believe it was more than a half a century ago that as a young girl growing up in the ’50’s, my friends and I played and amused ourselves with toys and pastimes from a simpler time.   I know I sound like a cliché and an echo of my own parents telling me of their childhoods in the early part of the 20th Century.  My youth was spent in the second half of that century and now I’m observing the toys, games and amusements of my granddaughter- born in this, the 21st Century.

I don’t know how big a part economics played in the toys we played with as children but  I’m sure it it did. Things are different with my granddaughter as they were when my daughter was raised.

aggies, dibs, clearies, slags, swirlies

Aggies

Let’s step back in time to the 1950’s, to a neighborhood populated by WWII veterans and their families;  My friends and I were post-war babies; future boomers in a simpler time and place.

red ball,

Paddle Ball

  1. Baseball cards A nickel a pack with a sheet of pink cardboard that passed off as bubble gum.  Yes even us girls had some baseball cards – ok well I may have had few more than my girlfriends because I was tomboy.  Anyway, each player leaned a card against a wall; then we would stand back and take turns tossing a card into the leaners, the cards that missed stayed on the floor and became part of the pot which would go to the winner.
  2. Paddle BallA really simple and extremely common toy.  Consisting of a wooden paddle with a small red ball attached to it by a long piece of elastic.  The idea – keep the ball in the air by whacking it with the paddle, the winner was whoever hit the ball the most times consecutively.
  3. Water Pistols –  The best summer toy on a hot day.  Colorful plastic guns; some in the shape of derringers and space guns.  NO large gatling guns, no blasters or rocket launchers – just a small pistol packed full of surprise and fun.
  4. Bubbles I know the kids today still play with bubbles, I’ve seen Finley (my granddaughter) get so excited over the magic of  blowing that produced iridescent globes floating in the air.   Today I was in a Dollar Store and saw quarts of bubble liquid for sale.  Maybe for the little old lady who lived in shoe. However, when I was a kid and your bubbles ran out, you tried to make your own solution from Mom’s liquid dish soap – it never really worked very well.
  5. Kites Kites were the harbingers of Spring along with jump ropes.  Our kites were the usual kite shape and made with richly-colored tissue paper usually with black lettering and I think most of us had Hi-Flyers. Once in a while I would see a box kite and as I got a little older, the kites were sporting designs such as stars and stripes and there were plastic kites too.  Now the good part (for me); my father used to make kites for me.  He had a super workshop in the basement, he would cut the wood and fashion the kite body out of road maps.   They were bigger than the store bought ones  with really long tails.  Then he would string it, balance it and make me  a wooden handle to wrap the kite string around.  Now, that was love…the time he spent making the kite and making sure I was involved in some aspect.  He could have just gone to Woolworth‘s or S.S. Kresge’s but then I would have never had this wonderful memory.
  6. Sledding – I mean on a real sled!  All of us had sleds with red runners, wooden slat seats, the best being a Flexible Flyer.  Hours and hours and then some more hours were spent hauling our sleds up Spencer Drive which had a huge hill.  I guess the town snow plows didn’t get down to blacktop because we always seemed to have enough snow to slide.  Snow days meant sledding until you were wet and cold and then having hot chocolate at one of our houses.  And then…well because we were all future baby boomers with post-war fathers, our dads were young enough to think it was fun to go sledding at night.  Young and the fact that most of them had the kind of job that didn’t require them to work late and they didn’t bring the job home with them either.  So after supper, we would often meet up again and go sliding with our dads.  Priceless memories of shrieking at breakneck speed on a mixture of ice and snow holding on tight to Dad.
  7. Flying a Wooden Airplane – Balsa wood Gliders were another Springtime and Summer treat.  Often a party favor or a reward for being good…these ubiquitous and ingenious little airplanes were everywhere.  The kit cost 10 cents! No need to read the instructions because all you had to do was rip open the packaging, slide the wing through the slot in the body and insert the tail fin and you were ready to pilot your plane through loops, nose-dives and distance races with your friends.  The Guillow company perfected a mass-production process and distribution to the chain stores like J.J. Newbury’s, Woolworth’s, Kresge’s etc.
  8. Punks – Not exactly a toy but truly a summer evening pastime.  I’m not sure where we got the Cattails, there must have been some swampy area nearby because we used to light the Cattails which we called punks and probably pretend we were smoking  keeping mosquitoes away.
  9. Shooting Marbles – Collecting them, trading them and playing with them, marbles were great fun.  I loved aggies which for me was the catchall name for any marble that wasn’t one of the new Cat’s Eyes marbles. The marbles were opaque with brilliant colors and designs;  they were swirls, clearies, slags and solids. I remember two games we used to play; one involved a circle drawn in the dirt or if you were inside, you could  make a circle out of string and the idea of the game was to use your shooter  and knock the marble out of the ring thereby winning them.  We also used to play a game which was like marble golf – you had to shoot your marble into a small hole in the ground.
  10. Parachute Blow Tube – You might get this really inexpensive and cheaply made toy at the 5 cent &10 cent or as a party favor! A little paper man was attached to a thin red plastic parachute .  The man and parachute fit into a narrow cardboard tube and you blew him out and up in the air.  You could also make your own.;  my father made me a parachute out of one of his white handkerchiefs and instead of a paper man, he strung a metal nut on it.   I could toss it high up in the air and it would come floating down beautifully.
  11. Check out a previous blog post about the Top Ten Toys from my childhood, https://pbenjay.wordpress.com/2010/10/21/thursdays-top-ten-toys-from-my-childhood/

sledding, sliding in the snow, snow days,

Flexible Flyer

balsa wood glider, glider kit

Balsa Wood Glider

Central Park,snow day,

Big Dog Little Dog

photo by Murray Head

duck feathers, Central Park

Just Ducky

photo by Murray Head

red dress, only in New York, red lady, new york crazy, mystic

I Hear Voices

photo by Murray Head

stop light, New York city, Fifth Ave, Stop hand

STOP!!

photo by Murray Head

cross country skiers, Central Park, New York city

Who Needs Snow?

photo by Murray Head

American Heart Month, Valentine’s Day – RED is everywhere!

The "Second Revolution" flag, first ...

Second Revolution Flag

Sorry I’m day late but at least not a dollar short ~ Week two in the exploration and exposition of various conspiracy theories held dear by members of the Tea Party movement.  This week there is a link you will have to copy and paste into your browser to read.  I thought about cutting and pasting the entire article for you all but quite frankly it is long, but most definitely interesting and intriguing.  Below is an excerpt to tantalize your interest.

“Why does the Cloward-Pevin conspiracy hold great appeal? And what, if anything, does it accomplish? On one level it’s entertainment. It allows believers to tease out the left’s secrets and sinister patterns. Since none of the evidence that supposedly confirms the existence of the Cloward-Piven strategy is, in fact, secret, this proves rather easy to do, and so the puzzle is both thrilling and gratifying.”

I also love a descriptive list of who makes up Tea Party membership: “… the tea party is an uneasy conclave of Ayn Rand secular libertarians and fundamentalist Christian evangelicals; it contains birthers, Birchers, racists, xenophobes, Ron Paulites, cold warriors, Zionists, constitutionalists, vanilla Republicans looking for a high and militia-style survivalists.”

Take a few minutes and explore the dark regions of a conspiracy at its best!

Roots of The Tea Party’s Conspiracy Mania – CBS News.

A red rose with dewdrops

Red Roses For My Lady

As promised, here are ten more romantic movies in celebration of February, American Heart month and Valentine’s Day.  What did you get for Valentine’s Day?  I got a single long-stemmed red rose!  It’s beautiful.

  1. Dirty Dancing (1987)Jennifer Grey and Patrick Swayze, (omg he was beautiful), had the best time of their lives in this low-budget sleeper film which went on to gross more than $200M worldwide.
  2. The Princess Bride (1987) – Adapted from William Goldman’s book, it’s a tale of “boy meets girl”, boy is lost at sea, girl reluctantly agrees to marry evil prince but she gets kidnapped;  The whole thing is complicated however since it‘s a fairy tale…”and they all lived happily ever after”.
  3. Say Anything (1989) – John Cusack, the under-achieving student serenades the class valedictorian with a boom box.  Entertainment Weekly called this the greatest modern movie romance.
  4. When Harry Met Sally (1989) – Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan have an on-again, off-again romance over a 12-year period.  Harry is based on Rob Reiner and Sally on writer, Nora Ephron and well…”I’ll have what she’s having”.
  5. Ghost (1990) – A romantic fantasy where romance transcends death.  Patrick Swayze (he’s dead) and Demi Moore (still living) re-connect through a phony medium, Whoopi Goldberg, who won an Oscar for her performance.
  6. Sleepless in Seattle (1993) – A romance where the lovers never meet until the end and based on An Affair to Remember.  Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks finally meet at the top of the Empire State building, oooh so romantic.
  7. True Romance (1993) – Romance Quentin Tarantino style!  A call-girl and a comic book nerd who kills her pimp and takes off with a suitcase full of cocaine. Patricia Arquette and Christian Slater play the not-so-heroic lovers.
  8. Titanic (1997) – Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Wynslet are the young lovers who picked the wrong boat.  This was the highest grossing film and held the title for 12 years until Avatar surpassed it.  Personally (and it is MY blog) I think it was a dumbed down version with bad casting and an unnecessary re-make.
  9. You’ve Got Mail (1998) – Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks in YET another re-make; original ideas anyone??? The movie title is a take-off from Yahoo’s email arrival announcement and the original movie was titled The Shop Around the Corner and starred Jimmy Stewart and Margaret Sullivan.
  10. The Wedding Singer (1998) – Poor Adam Sandler, left at the altar by his fiance and a wannabe rock singer ends up singing at weddings, serenading other couples.  BUT Drew Barrymore comes into his life and all is good.  A super 80’s soundtrack, the movie grossed $123M.

The photo says it all…Finley is just doing what comes natural I guess…just like Mommy does.

baby nursing baby, dolly, breast feeding

Look Mommy! Just Like You!!!

 

I know I said I was a woman of a certain age but now I guess I’m really going to date myself.  Penny Candy! I remember a couple of small stores where my friends and I would go and buy penny candy.  We’d spend quite a long time deciding just what sweet to buy because you just never knew when you would have another nickel or dime to splurge on candy.  Taking a walk down nostalgia lane (that is the 50’s!) these are some of the toothsome delights I remember best; just like being in Candyland.

Bazooka Bubble gum Soooooooo sweet your teeth hurt with the first chew.   A good choice though, because for a penny, your treat lasted a long, long time – depending on how strong your jaw was as this pinky pink confection turned to a hardened rubbery plastic ball in your mouth.  But wasn’t it fun snapping the gum and blowing enormous bubbles?

Smarties – These neat little cellophane  rolls were great when you just wanted to pop one in your mouth and put it under your tongue.  Best way to eat candy in a classroom!  Multi-colored and not too too sweet, they were great for sharing and lasting.

penny candy, old time candy, pastel candies,

School Smart Candy

Squirrels – short for Squirrel Nut Chocolate Caramel Chews; Now that’s a mouthful, literally and figuratively.   There were a lot of flavors packed into those small 2 inch rectangles. They came wrapped in semi-opaque waxed paper and what you go was a sticky, gooey, chocolaty, stick-to-your-molars mouthful of taffy-like caramel with nuts too.   Sometimes on Halloween, we’d end up with a bunch of Squirrels, Smarties and Bubble Gum at the bottom of our sacks.  Not everybody gave out big candy bars in my neighborhood.

Atomic Fire Balls – OMG these things were HOT HOT HOT!  So why did we eat them? Remember how your lips stung, your pink turned hot pink and by the time all the hot went away, you almost cracked a tooth trying to bite the now white ball into pieces?  I understand they’re still around burning up the mouths of brave and foolish kids.

Mary JanesYummy molasses bite-size candies with a peanut butter filling.  Now that I think about it , it’s  possible these golden flavorful goodies started me on my peanut butter addiction!  And if you thought Squirrels stuck to your teeth, well Mary Janes practically glued your upper and lower teeth together.  Do you remember trying to talk without drooling when you had a Mary Jane in your mouth?

molasses candy, peanut butter filling, penny candy, old time candy

Mmmmmm Mary Janes!



Cover of "The Top One Hundred Pasta Sauce...

Cover of The Top One Hundred Pasta Sauces

TASTY TIDBITS TUESDAY

I love pasta! Hands down, other than ice cream I love pasta best.  Growing up, I never ate pasta; No-we ate macaroni and gravy, spaghetti and meatballs.  Macaroni was/is pasta or rather pasta is macaroni.  Some people think other than spaghetti and linguine all those other shapes are not pasta – what would they be?  My own husband thinks the only pasta is linguine and I keep telling him, it’s not the correct macaroni for every sauce.  When you are reading a recipe in an Italian cookbook or at an Italian restaurant and the dish description specifies a pasta such as shells, or rigatoni or mezzani – there’s a good reason why so.  Some sauce require a thicker, chewier pasta or one with lines so the sauce can cling to pieces.  Ahhhh once again I have digressed a bit.

What I really wanted to say was how much I enjoy preparing vegetarian pasta dishes.  There are so many possibilities and as you can probably deduce from previous posts, most of the pasta recipes I post are vegetarian.

I remember once asking my Grandfather about whether or not when he was young and still living in Italy, how did his mother prepare macaroni.  I wanted to know about meatballs, Bolognese sauce, sausages and spare ribs…well he quickly set me straight and told me that “IF” they were lucky there was meat in the pasta once a week, most likely on Sunday.  You know about Sunday Sauce don’t you?  Well another post at another time.  Growing up in my Italian-American household, I don’t remember ever eating pasta with anything other than meat or seafood EXCEPT on Fridays when we would have Linguine Aglio e Olio, which is linguine prepared with olive oil and garlic.  So as an adult I decided to explore the world of pasta without meat and a whole new world opened up for me.  I highly recommend the cookbook, The Top One Hundred PASTA SAUCES by Diane Seed.  It is replete with great pasta recipes with vegetables as well as a few meat and fish sauces.

Roasted Red Onion and Squash Pasta

2 medium red onions, cut into 6 wedges, layers separated

1 medium butternut squash, peeled, cut into 3/4″ pieces (I buy already prepped)

1 TBS coarsely chopped fresh sage leaves ( I used 2-3)

1TBS olive oil

coarse salt and pepper

1/2 # short ribbed pasta such as rigatoni

1/4 cup grated Fontina cheese (2 oz)

Preheat oven 450 degrees

On rimmed baking sheet, toss onions, squash, sage leaves with oil.  Season with salt and pepper.  Arrange in single layer and roast until tender, about 25 minutes, rotating sheet and tossing  vegetables, halfway through.

Meanwhile, in large pot, cook pasta till tender to preference.  Reserve 1 cup of pasta water;  drain pasta and return to pot.  Add vegetables and cheese and toss to combine, adding enough pasta water to create a thin sauce that coats pasta.