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With Christmas around the corner, 15 days and counting, red is popping up everywhere.  Well actually if you’re looking for it, it really is everywhere or in our case, where you find it. So in this season of RED (and green) I thought it a good idea to continue the series of I See Red and Red Is Where You Find It.

Central park pond, autumn, fall, artist, red

Artist in Central Park

Photo by Murray Head

red jacket, Central Park, Colombia, Salsa

Salsa not coffee

photo by Murray Head

RED, berries, bird, Central Park, New York city, Murray Head

Berries for Breakfast

photo by Murray

New York city, camera, knit hat, Times Square

Red Hat in Times Square

photo by Murray Head

red tights, Times Square, red legs

RED legs!

photo by Murray Head

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I’d like to think that it was the holiday weekend that caused the dearth of responses BUT since the responses invariably come in on Mondays when I post the prior week’s…..well Thanksgiving was on Thursday so who knows what happened???

My hubby enjoyed his birthday weekend – startingoveringermany

Living with menopause,  forgot the question – Karen

Mom turned 90- what a celebration! – Heide

Watching Fin watch the Rockettes – PRICELESS!

Calling on you all to channel your Ernest Hemingway and spew forth Six little (or long) words and tell us who or what you love, where you are in yourself, your life.  Sum it up in Six Words, no more, no less.  Anonymity respected is so desired.

Radio City Music Hall, Christmas spectacular, New York city

Still Kicking After All These Years!


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Traditional Thanksgiving meal in New England

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It’s time to get you guys more involved in what goes on here…I mean it’s hard sometimes for me to come up with the whole post, it’s holiday time, I have to plan, shop and cook, I have a job and that means I have to be at the office and also out showing apartments…and I’ve been babysitting Finley a lot lately because Mommy and Daddy are running around Manhattan checking out schools and getting checked out themselves.  Soooo now you see why I need to you to participate, contribute and literally help me out.

I’m going to start this off but I’m warning you I don’t think I’ve had too many NON-TRADITIONAL dishes at Thanksgiving over the years.  On the other hand since  I was born as a third generation American of Italian and German heritage, ethnicity did play a role in any holiday meal. Let me think….well when I was a little girl and we would go to my Grandmother’s house for Thanksgiving, what I remember was not eating any turkey. It’s not that there wasn’t a turkey, at least I think there was, but I don’t remember eating because by the time Grandma served it I was too full.  Why? Because Grandma always served Ravioli first!!! I don’t remember if there were Meatballs and Sausages too, but I wouldn’t be surprised!

Then when I used to spend Thanksgiving dinner with my first husband’s family, there were definitely some traditional to them – NON-TRADITIONAL dishes on that table.  There were a lot of things stuffed besides the turkey;  We had Stuffed Artichokes and Stuffed Mushrooms which were stuffed with basically the same bread stuffing that was in the bird!  Now I can see some of you trying to picture this because in your house the stuffing was probably made with cubes of crouton-like bread and how do you get a cube into an artichoke leaf?  Physics dictate you can’t and you can’t!  But my mother-in-law’s stuffing basically  consisted of grated Italian bread crumbs, grated Parmesan cheese and chicken broth.  She did add a small amount of sauteed onion and celery but not enough to alter the consistency of the dressing which was pretty much porridge-like – now you see how you could mush it into the artichokes and plop it on top of the mushrooms?

Then there were several years when I spent Thanksgiving with my Aunt Marian and my cousins in New Jersey.  Dinner was fairly traditional  in  that there were Mashed Potatoes, Candied Sweet Potatoes, Creamed Onions, Turnips…and Sweet & Sour Red Cabbage. My uncle was German and hence the cabbage.

Over the last several years I’ve kept a pretty traditional Thanksgiving table with tweaking the standards and adding other vegetable sides, keeping the desserts traditional-well traditional for my family anyway.  I’m saying that because as I’m typing I realize that I often make a Pumpkin Cheesecake as well as a Pumpkin Pie. That’s a tradition I kept from my mother-in-law and it is dee-lish-us!

And now it’s your turn.  Let’s hear what NON-TRADITIONAL dishes have become a tradition at your Thanksgiving Dinner table.  You can comment or feel free to email me at pbenjaytoo@gmail.com

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Photo showing some of the aspects of a traditi...

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It’s inevitable you know; It starts with the discussion/decision as to who is going to host the annual Thanksgiving Day dinner and then rapidly moves into the arenas of who should bring what and when should we eat.  That last particular question is the “thorn” in my side.  I grew up with having dinner in the afternoon, when I was married to my first husband we ate dinner in the afternoon and as I stated in a previous blog,  stayed at the table for the whole afternoon and evening until it was time for turkey sandwiches and more pumpkin pie!  My present husband grew up with the concept of Thanksgiving Dinner eaten in the early evening (maybe they didn’t want everyone to stay long enough for the turkey  sandwiches!).  I have kind of compromised on this point primarily because we don’t seem to have the kind of guests that like to play games and so no turkey sandwiches for them – we eat around 4pm.  This year may be different because Chiara and Tom and kids will be joining us and I think dinner time may have to be timed around naps – I don’t remember ever having that issue with my own, oh well…..

I have a list of Ten Taboo Topics you probably shouldn’t bring up during dinner.  Some of them are clearly meant for those wives (and husbands) who find themselves dining with the outlaws.

  1. Don’t discuss bodily ailments, no graphic descriptions of recent illnesses or conditions.
  2. Probably not a good time to rehash last year’s fiasco;  i.e.  when Uncle George got tipsy and fell into the dessert table  and your  sister’s  dog peed on the carpet.
  3. Try not to be passive aggressive;  Your chubby cousin is reaching for second helpings of mashed potatoes and stuffing and you mention how quickly your best friend lost all that baby weight and is now thinner than ever.
  4. The economy has been tough for everyone and even if you are the poorest of the church mice, this is not the time or place to complain about your bills, your lack of funds and loss of a job.
  5. Blended families are difficult enough, so during this occasion, refrain from mentioning how in your family your mother always did….
  6. If you and your husband are dining with both sets of parents, please don’t tell everyone how hard you two are working on getting pregnant – the visuals that appear in parent’s minds are not pretty!
  7. NO POLITICS – enough said especially in light of the midterm elections; NO POLITICS!
  8. That goes for off-color humor as well.  Tell your blue jokes to your friends, not your mom.
  9. Even if your mother/family cooked gourmet Thanksgiving dinners with everything made fresh and from scratch, don’t make comparison comments.  They will NEVER be appreciated.
  10. Religion – don’t even go there! If grace is said before the meal, just go along with the program, the host and most of the other guests don’t care if you are an atheist or a Buddhist – you’re a guest.

But you can make lots of conversation about:  weather, apolitical TV shows like Mad Men or 3rd Rock, recent vacations, funny characters from work, the delicious food, sports and if there’s some curmudgeon trying to pick a fight…mention puppies! Everybody loves puppies.

We’ll be taking a poll after Thanksgiving to find the most hilarious moment, the most awkward and the best side dish!!!

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Two Reese's peanut butter cups in orange packaging

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Oh the sweet memories of youth!  I can remember the eternal and annual question of the month – October that is:  What are you going to be for Halloween? Now depending on who was asking, you either told or said “I’m not telling, it’s a secret”. I miss going out for Halloween and I’m talking about going out with my friends, not taking my kids out.  My husband always did that because I LOVED getting dressed up and scaring the bejesus out of the kids who came to the door.  I carved the pumpkins, set up the spooky music and had a ball!  And I got to eat  Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups between Trick or Treaters.

Anyway, I thought you might enjoy some Halloween inspiration as we approach my favorite holiday.

 

Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head, Ghouls

Yeeks There Are Three of Them!

photo by Murray Head

 

 

Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head, KISS

KISS on Steroids

photo by Murray Head

 

 

Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head,

GREEN with ENVY

photo by Murray Head

 

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Like what is she talking about? Well if you have been following the blog then you know that MOST of my FAB FOTO FRIDAYS photographs are taken by Murray Head.  Murray has photographed the annual Greenwich Village Halloween Parade many years and has entered a contest sponsored by the Parade organization. HE NEEDS YOUR VOTE!

All you have to do is click on the link below.  No registration, No email address required, No Nothing – just click and vote.  Please don’t use your other two votes – we doing BULLET VOTING the real American way.  Thanks so much and for further inspiration here are a couple of his photos from previous parades!

clown, Greenwich Village Halloween parade

Clown in Greenwich Village Halloween Parade

Bravehear warrior, Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head

Feeling Blue Over You

http://wildfireapp.com/website/302/contests/54092/voteable_entries/8138655

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