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This is for all you birdlovers, Fab Foto Friday-lovers, Red Tail hawk lovers and anyone who has been following the story of the Red Tail hawk who flew into the NY Times building.  He was trying to fly out of an interior courtyard atrium and flew smack into a window twice and fell to the ground stunned.  Avian emergency!  NY Audubon was called and a falconer was dispatched to rescue the bird.   The injured hawk was brought to Wildlife in Need and Rescue and Rehabilitation in Long Island where it was confirmed the juvenile did not have a broken  wing and the prognosis was good.  TODAY on Valentine’s Day, Newshawk (as he was dubbed) was brought to Central Park and released in Tupelo Meadow in The Ramble.  The photographer in the picture is Murray Head, my Fab Foto Friday source.  Hooray!!!  Below is a link to the photo and if you cruise around there you can follow links to read the whole story.

Central Park, 1:37 P.M.

NY Times building, hawk smashes into glass atrium

Newshawk

Finley Ray Clark, Finny, Valentine's day,

Valentine #1 - Finley Ray

Francesca Lillian, red bow,

Valentine #2 - Francesca

I am blessed!

Those of us in the Northeast are still in throes of winter, regardless that a lot of it has melted.  I know we can expect more snow, only hope it is a snow fall and not a storm or blizzard.  Looking forward to the last snow of the season because I think I’m going to sprinkle grass seed all over the top and let it melt right down to the ground; I might have a greener spring! Ah but I digress…the reason I mentioned the snow was due to the fact that our Six Word Memoirs still speak to the long and bleak and snowy season we are in.

Shoveling driveway, sidewalk and now roof!  – Susan Celtic Lady

Goodbye paycheck, hello insomnia and headaches – Weez

My tan marks have all gone – Susan in the Grove

Day 1, Diet # 199, trying again – Me

And now from the book,  Not Quite What I Was Planning – Six Word Memoirs by Writers, FAMOUS & OBSCURE:

Recent doctorate means overeducated and underemployed -Philip Sternberg

Taking a lifetime to grow up – Mirona Iliescu

Living for Jesus because earth sucks – Johnny Johnson

Bad breaks discovered at high speed – Paul Schultz

Dancing in fields of infinite possibilities – Deepak Chopra

Six word memoir, guru

Deepak Chopra




Liz Taylor, trailer screenshot, cropped from h...

Elizabeth Taylor

If you been with me for a while then you know, last Thursday I listed TEN TOP Romantic movies of all times.  And there are 20 more to come before we’re out of this American Heart Month filled with red hearts, chocolate and love.

However, there is a dark side to some love affairs and these 5 movies are some of the BEST in that category:

  1. Who’ Afraid of Virginia Woolfe? (1966) Starring Richard Burton and Liz Taylor whose off-screen romance had as many pitfalls as their portrayals of George and Martha.   Boozy and bickering, George and Martha needle and humiliate each other in front of their guests, clearly seen as a sick yet symbiotic couple.  Elizabeth Taylor won the Academy Award for Best Actress for her role as the needy but castrating Martha.
  2. Closer (2004)Also directed Mike Nichols and adapted from a London stage production, it is filled with raw emotion and intense performances.  Jude Law, Natalie Portman, Clive Owen and Julia Roberts are all beautiful people who do ugly things to one another and ultimately themselves.  Not your romantic first date night flick.
  3. Blue Velvet (1986) David Lynch (you’re not surprised are you?) creates a sordid underworld of sexual slavery, addiction, depravity, voyeurism and crime beneath a typically suburban setting.  Disturbing and twisted romance involves, Roy Orbison, Dennis Hopper, Kyle MacLachlan and beautiful Isabella Rossalini.   Lynch darkly explores hidden fears and desires and adds unexpected satire along the way.
  4. Natural Born Killers(1994) Woody Harrelson and Juliette Lewis are lovers and killers who as they fall deeper in love, their thirst for killing intensifies.  Oliver Stone utilizes a variety of cinematic ploys as he unfolds this story of undeserved fame and all that comes with it;  frenetic camera angles, chopped up editing and the use of various film stocks.  Blood thirsty and scandalous, the public loves them.
  5. Fatal Attraction (1987) Michael Douglas and Glenn Close filled the big screen with steamy, sexual scenes and equally scary suspenseful moments.  Fatal Attraction quickly entered our lexicon as the universal term for a “crazy”  stalker or ex-lover who just couldn’t take no for an answer.  By the end of the movie, the one you are holding hands with will probably turn to you, shake their head and smile knowingly – clearly conveying the probable demise you can expect should you ever try…..

 

Future Shock

FUTURE SHOCK

OBSCURE ORIGINS OF COMMON PHRASES

and some OBSOLETE ones too

In one week I heard three almost-obsolete phrases used…so you can safely assume I’m hanging out with people my own age, lol, lol.  With language changing at a speed equivalent to Alvin Toffler‘s Future Shock,  that is phrases, terms, and words I grew up with are now nearly obsolete and now there is a host of new words or rather in my opinion old words and the younger generations have assigned new meanings to them – but more about that later.

First off, I heard someone say, “You don’t know diddly-squat about….”.  So what exactly is diddlysquat? I think you can pretty much guess that anyone under the age of 50 is going to say, “you don’t know shit and that’s the meaning of diddly-squat.  Actually in this case, squat is a euphemism  for the word shit.

The original term doodly-squat dates from about 1934.  There is no definite origin except that the word doodly was used to refer to: a fool, a Union soldier, a penis, cheating…well you get the gist.  And squat was the nice way to say shit.  About 1963 Diddly-squat appeared in dictionaries and in 1964, Diddly-shit.

Then in a TCM movie (do we ever watch anything else !!??), one of the characters went “on the lam”.   The roots of this term are in Old English; lam, lammister, on the lam all refer to a hasty departure and were common in thieve’s slang.   The allusion in lam is to beat or beat it in Old English meaning to leave.

Lastly, I heard the term larder which I know to mean a cool place built to store the food supply prior to refrigeration or ice boxes.    Larders were small rooms or areas usually adjacent to the kitchen.  This room would have shelves and maybe a small window covered in fine mesh to keep air circulating but flies out.  Some would have hooks on the wall to hang a slab of meat.

I know this next is worthy of a blog post unto itself so I will only use one word as an example and I know I used it before.  Today’s younger generation and I’m embarrassed to say that my soon-to-be-34 daughter, wife and mother of two darling little girls uses this term regularly.  As in, “so we went to this random restaurant” and “I don’t know, it was some random girl” and “why don’t you just get some random toy” – WTF?  A new language in the making.  RANDOM means: adjective

1.  

proceeding, made, or occurring without definite aim, reason, or pattern: the random selection of numbers.
2.  

Statistics . of or characterizing a process of selection in which each item of a set has an equal probability of being chosen.
3.  

Building Trades .  

a.  

(of building materials) lacking uniformity of dimensions: random shingles.
b.  

(of ashlar) laid without continuous courses.
c.  

constructed or applied without regularity: random bond.
–noun  

4.  

Chiefly British . bank3 ( def. 7b ) .
–adverb  

5.  

Building Trades . without uniformity: random-sized slates.

—Idiom

6. at random, without definite aim, purpose, method, or adherence to a prior arrangement; in a haphazard way: Contestants were chosen at random from the

studio audience.

I’m going to start taking note of more of the new meanings  being assigned to words  and in the future we can explore  just what they are really saying. LOL

WHY Do I See Red?

Because it’s almost Valentine’s Day and what could be more appropriate than the RED the universal color for a heart!  Not to mention that February is American Heart Month so for the next couple of weeks, you can expect RED to be popping up here and there.

FAB FOTO FRIDAY

new york city melting pot, Asian boy,

All Wrapped Up in RED love

Photo by Murray Head

Salvation army singer, New York city, Christmas in New York

Singing for Salvation

Photo by Murray Head

 

red berries, bird in Central Park

Berry Good

 

photo by Murray Head

bleached blonde, black dress, red lipstick

Red is the Color of My True Love's Lips

photo by Murray Head

 

cardinal, sparrows, Central Park,winter birds

Standing Out in the Crowd

Photo by Murray Head

 



Cropped screenshot of Clark Gable from the tra...

Image via Wikipedia

February is all about LOVE so what better time to recap some of the BEST and ROMANTIC movies made.  And why not, with the Oscars around the corner. Whether it’s boy-meets-girl, boy-meets-boy or ogre-meets-princess, it’s always ALL ABOUT LOVE. This is the 1st of 3 Thursday’s Top Ten list to be devoted to the Best of Romantic Movies... The lists are in chronological order. …by the way, anyone having a party???

  1. Gone With The Wind (1939) How many of us swooned over Clark Gable in the role of Rhett Butler; his portrayal of a rich, handsome and best of all “a bad boy” had the ladies in the theaters sighing and crying as he swept Scarlett up in his arms and carried her up the stairs.
  2. Casablanca (1942) Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall brought the chemistry of their off-screen romance to their chemistry-infused but not-to-be love affair of the movie.  The lines,  “Of all the gin joints in town, why did you come here”? and “Here’s looking at you kid”  entered our lexicon 70 years ago and are still with us.  All that and set in an exotic (to Americans) land and in the midst of a war.  We’ve all had what we sure was a “meant to be” love affair – how many of you married that person?
  3. An Affair To Remember (1957) Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr…you almost don’t have to say anything else.  His voice, his looks, his manners and a shipboard romance to boot, charmed Terry McKay and every other woman since.  An unfulfilled love affair between soul-mates.  Do NOT see the remake, none of the above applies.
  4. Breakfast At Tiffany’s (1961) Who could imagine that a novella by Truman Capote (of all people) would become the must-see movie for young women all over the country and often a pre-requisite at fashionable bridal showers! George Peppard as the sensitive writer and Audrey Hepburn as the fragile soul hiding behind the party-girl exterior.
  5. Dr. Zhivago (1965) What could be more romantic than a doomed love affair played out against the back-drop of a  Revolution and a Russian one at that.  Omar Sharif and Julie Christie carry on in the midst of the beautiful and bleak Russian countryside and all the while our hearts and minds are humming along to Lara’s Theme, the movie’s signature song (and for me, my wedding song in 1968).
  6. The Sound Of Music (1965) On the eve of a world war, a former nun and a widower with kids – now there’s an unlikely but winning combination for romance and a true story too!  Christopher Plummer and Julie Andrews sing their way through love and who among us doesn’t know “…do a dear, re a spot of  golden sun…”.  As for me (again) my first date with my future husband was going to see this movie in Hartford, CT.
  7. Bonnie And Clyde (1967) With a tagline, “They’re young, …they’re in love, …and they kill people”, this offbeat romance shocked audiences with more graphic violence than had been seen before in a mainstream movie.  Ahh, but Faye Dunaway and Warren Beatty were so gorgeous you had to love them and feel a pang or two over their ill-fated romance and doomed lives.
  8. Love Story (1970)You may not want to admit it but this saccharin and yet another unlikely and doomed romance won our hearts and the phrase, “Love means never having to say you’re sorry” lives on.  Preppy Ryan O’Neil and beautiful Ali MacGraw were perfectly cast in this “class”ic tale of lovers from both sides of the tracks.
  9. The Way We Were (1973) Along the same lines as #8, our 9th pick throws a very preppy writer, Robert Redford ooooohhhh, and a sassy left-wing activist, Barbra Streisand together.  Opposites attract but they probably shouldn’t live together and this was a case of principles overriding love – how sad in a way.  I wanted to see them together just because – although I knew she was way too smart for him and in the long run their love would have died a long and painful death.
  10. Grease (1978) It’s so easy to romanticize an era when you are at least 20 years beyond it and so the 50’s seemed like a fun time especially when greaser John Travolta met up with exchange student, Olivia Newton-John.  Based on a hit Broadway musical, the movie was a smash hit and surpassed The Sound of Music as the highest grossing musical of its day.

Well after 35 weeks of exploring the conspiracy theory, COUP D’ETAT, I did wonder how I could keep Conspiracy Theory Wednesday an ongoing segment of my blog.  I never thought it would be easy UNTIL I thought about the Tea Party and some of the strange and wondrous ideas it embraces.  A quick Google search revealed a bunch of articles written on that very subject and written by people far more educated and knowledgeable than me and published in well-known and respected magazines and newspapers.

Let’s see how far I can go with this, maybe only a couple weeks… we’ll have to see how it plays out.  I don’t know if I have any readers who identify with the Tea Party and partially that’s because I, like everyone else I personally know, thinks they’re a fringe group of crazies, that the whole idea of the movement  is ludicrous and they can be laughed off. NOT-that’s a dangerous attitude on my part and others.  So maybe posting the articles will be helpful to everyone, believers and non-believers alike.  Because up to this point, the only tea parties I like to go to serve Black Oolong or Lemon Ginger AND scones with clotted cream.

Here’s one from Newsweek published in February ’10.  I won’t know what you think unless you comment or send me an email.

Tea Party Movement Is Full of Conspiracy Theories – Newsweek.

Tea Party, fringe politics, Republicans,

Welcome to the Mad Hatter's Tea Party

Tasty Tidbits Tuesday

Tonight I’m making a delicious, light and heart-healthy vegetarian meal.  We both love pasta and I especially am happy when I can make a pasta dish with veggies and is easy to toss together – it makes me feel so much more Italian 🙂  My grandfather who was born in Italy always used to say that having meat in your macaroni or spaghetti (there is a redundancy here but that’s how Americans speak) was a special occasion or a Sunday dinner.

So here’s my Tasty Tidbits Tuesday recipe:

12 oz (3/4 box) linguine

1/4 cup olive oil

1/4  cup pignoli (pine nuts)

4 cloves of garlic sliced

2 lb. asparagus trimmed and cut into 1″ pieces

1 cup (3 oz) shaved Parmesan cheese

Cook pasta, reserve a 1/2 cup pasta water, drain and return to pot.

Meanwhile, heat oil in medium skillet over MEDIUM HIGH heat.  Add pine nuts and garlic and cook, stirring frequently, until golden, 1-2 minutes.  Add the asparagus and cook, tossing occasionally, until just tender, 2-3 minutes.

Add the asparagus mixture to the pasta along with a 1 tsp. salt and 1/4 tsp pepper and toss to combine. *if pasta seems too dry, add a little pasta water to form thin sauce). Sprinkle with shaved Parmesan before serving.

Recipe from Real Simple magazine

Real Simple recipe, heart healthy, pasta with veggies, asparagus, Parmensan, linguine

Heart Healthy Linguine with Asparagus

DSC04059 Six-Word Memoir banners

Six Word Memoir Banners

Well, by now you know the drill…if it’s Monday it must be Six Word Memoir day. And as always each week, I look to my readers to send me their own Six Word Memoir. Some weeks are bountiful and lately they’ve been scarce AND I certainly appreciate each one I receive and marvel at how clever you all are at distilling your life into just six words, not more, not less.

A special long distance thank-you to my buddy out west for his always witty and thoughtful and thought-provoking Six Word Memoirs.

Another letdown. Betrayed by former co-workers – Weez

Age has yet to eliminate  neuroses! – Me

Creative cells are fading and frozen – Susan in the Grove

I am full of it =Love! – Karen

And from the book, NOT QUITE WHAT I WAS PLANNING SIX WORD MEMOIRS by Writers FAMOUS & OBSCURE:

Middle of seven made me me – Susan Sinott

The woman formerly known as Marissa – Mimi Ghez

Followed yellow brick road, disappointment ensued – Kelsey Ochs

Nerdy girl smutmonger. Now baby fever – Rachel Kramer Bussel

Born free but lost my country – Ted O’Brien