OBSCURE ORIGINS OF COMMON AND NOT SO COMMON PHRASES
Where do out of date, out of fashion phrases and old sayings go? Why, they end up in Pbenjay’s blog! How I happen to pick one to research its origin is often a function of watching an old movie. Those of you who really know me, know that the other adult (male)in the house has control of the remote and although we have 400 channels, he only wants to watch whatever movie is on TCM. So every now and then I hear a phrase that I heard growing up (and had forgotten).
Little Shaver – Refers to a young child or baby. The origin is unknown, however this was a popular term used right up through the early ’50’s. Usually the “little shaver” was a young boy and the term means he’s a little “chip” or “shaving” , as in “off the old block”. The Old Blockbeing the parents. Nice to be thought of as a block of wood!
Nose out of joint – This dated saying is used to describe someone who is upset, possibly offended. It’s origin is its use in a book by Barnaby Rich, who wrote His Farewell to Militarie Professionin 1581. The line is: “It could bee no other then his owne manne, that has thrust his nose so farre out of ioynte.” I never really thought of my nose as having a joint. If it does, could you get arthritis in your nose? MMmmmm…..
Sometimes it’s just fun to hang out with your friends…Nicky drops by the guest room to visit with Quilty Cat and Sam and Serena Sock Monkey. From the looks on everybody’s faces, a good time was had by all!
SURREAL may be an understatement for this exquisite commercial! Can you imagine using that adjective to describe a TV ad? I can hardly believe I’m writing a blog about it, but I am.
Cartier has produced a spectacular commercial aptly titled L’Odyssée de Cartier. Their signature leopard leads the viewer through the evolution of the brand. Amazingly clever, beautifully executed and besides the captivating images, the soundtrack is an absolutely perfect complement to the film.
I first saw L’Odyssée as a Youtube video and I’ve embedded that link for your viewing pleasure! Cartier is running an abbreviated version on a couple of major network shows, but it’s nothing compared to the original. You won’t believe the beauty, the cinematography, the music, the woman, the dress!! And we thought Budweiser made clever Super Bowl ads – yeah right!
I was very disappointed when I saw it on TV. It was like seeing a movie adapted from a book with half the chapters left out. See for yourself!
NO word from me for the last six days! What’s going on? Lots and nothing which all adds up to some random ramblings from the insane asylum of my mind:
Let me first go on record about my ridiculous computer – this laptop should be in the trash! I am slowly being driven crazy by the constant Error Script messages, the slow as molasses reaction time and the worst of all, is the incessant freezing up. It must have a virus because it’s making me sick.
So I have been avoiding trying to do much of anything on it. Spent some time on Consumer Reports looking at their recommendations for purchasing a new computer – none of which I can afford right now!
Francesca has strep throat and the poor baby only wants to be comforted by her Mommy. Why should she be different than all of the rest of us? Chiara has been running to the doctor’s, dealing with Finley and the Nanny had to go home early yesterday. I’ll be back in the City on Sunday and will help out with the girls
The sun suffered from a couple of storms and the activity caused some unbelievable displays of the Northern Lights. I looked at the photos and I’m at the point where it makes me sad to do so. I REALLY REALLY want to see the Aurora in person. Every time I look into how to go, when to go, it always amounts to more money than I can manage. I’m getting old, soon to be an official senior and I WANT to see the Aurora Borealis!
I’ve been trying to stock-up the larder at the tea room because I can’t stand all the shopping that is necessary for the menu. I hope to deal with that issue in a month or two.
We were invited to our friend, Michele’s house this evening to have drinks and homemade foccacia and it was SO GOOD. It was lovely visiting with Michele and Peter and their home is delightfully comfortable. Should I mention that I had to drive home? I’ll bet you can figure out why – I hope he has a brutal hangover tomorrow.
It’s been a busy week of restoration around here. Peter retrieved some valuable pieces he had in storage and has been stripping, cleaning, varnishing, inspecting, and refurbishing the items for resale. He’s been doing a bang-up job and I am upset with myself for forgetting to take the Before photo before he started the refinishing of a certain fireplace mantle. It looks terrific!
Oh, I made scones this week; first time I ever made them all by myself. I made 41 and thought I would have enough to get through the month…but NO, so today I made 14 more and once again after consulting the calendar, I’m still short…but I’m getting better at whipping them up.
Aurora Borealis
This is so boring, I should at least end it now! Ok dear readers good night!
This is an ode to old-fashioned customer service! Regis Philbin and Kelly Rippa have been appearing in a series of television commercials touting the virtues of TD Bank. No monthly fees, debit cards and most of all personal service. Perhaps the commercial I’m referring to, doesn’t run in your part of the country and if so, the irony of the title may escape you. However, this blog post isn’t about TD Bank; No, it’s about my own personal banker.
Way back in the ’80’s I had occasion to open a joint savings account with my father at Superior Federal Bank in Arkansas. Yes, I know it sounds odd. Well. I had my reasons…. I lived in Connecticut then and for many years I had little to do with bank account – whatever money was in there was money I had put aside, not to touch. Years later, the bank was bought or merged with Arvest Bank and I moved to New York City.
Eventually, periodically I would transfer funds from that account to my bank in New York. It was quite a process actually. In order to get the money to New York, I had to dictate an extremely long and complicated litany of addresses, AB routing numbers , a beneficiary account and then for further credit to another account number . This was a lot to say on the telephone and not being a banker, I don’t really know what the process was on the end in Arkansas, but often when I called, the woman who answered the phone would tell me that she would get Ethel to assist me because Ethel knew what to do and I didn’t have to reiterate the litany to her; Ethel was my first personal banker at Arvest!
Every time I’d call the bank, I was warmly greeted with a cheery “Hello, Miss Lori”. Gosh, you’d think I was a regular local customer who came in every week to deposit my paycheck! Fast forward to the last couple of years; Ethel retired and at some point, Damon answered the phone when I called to facilitate a wire transfer.
Damon has that silky Southern drawl, not real deep-South, and not Arkansasese, just soft and pleasant. So here I am, Type A++ living in Type A Manhattan and on the other end of the phone is this relaxed voice exuding capability and assuring me all would be handled asap. And true to his word, Damon got the wire transfer out and followed up with a phone call to let me know it went through.
Now, don’t you find that amazing? I mean, really…have you ever tried to get a live person at Chase Manhattan? Ha, ha, ha, and you can add Bank of America,Citi Bank and every other mega financial institution around here to that impersonal personal service. I CAN pick up the phone and call my banker, in fact, I can also email him and get a reply! I think that IS JUST FANTASTIC! And he always inquires “How are you today, Miss Lori?” Sometimes we chat about the differences in the weather between Arkansas and New York.
I called one day and was told Damon no longer worked at that branch YIKES panic strikes! Oh! He was now in an Oklahoma branch, BUT he would still be able to take care of business for me. The next time he transferred, he let me know where he would be and sent me pre-addressed envelopes with Attention to his name so my deposits would be personally handled by him!! NOW I CALL THAT PERSONAL SERVICE!
So there it is, my ode, my homage to REAL CUSTOMER SERVICE and Damon, the best personal banker you could have! Thanks Damon!!
The red carpet has rolled out, the nominees and wannabees are strolling in, all smiles glancing to the left and then the right. Right now it’s all about “WHO” are you wearing? Rooney in Givenchy doesn’t do it for me, although I love her looks, I don’t think the dress flatters her. Viola in Vera Wang, Tina Fey in Herrara, it’s the night to vote on talent and praise the stylists.
However, what I really want to blog about is who I think should win anAcademy Award and who probably will. A couple hours from now, I’ll know how I sco
BEST ACTOR:Jean Dujardinwill probably win. Brad Pitt should win because he put all his skills into making the character natural and believable.
BEST ACTRESS : Viola Davisseems to have edged outMeryl Streep in the last couple of weeks but I think it’s still a toss-up. GlenClosewas outstanding in the difficult role of Albert Nobbs and she should win, but won’t.
BEST SUPPORTING ACTOR: Christopher Plummerwill win and I think so too. He is “due” .
BEST SUPPORTING ACTRESS: What a tough race! Every nominee was fantastic in their roles. If Viola Davis doesn’t win Best Actress, then the Academy may pick Octavia Spencer. However, I think Janet McTeerwill win and I pick her also. Melissa McCarthywas unbelievable – really can’t imagine playing her role.
BEST DIRECTOR: It is a rare year when the Best Director and the Best Movie are not one and the same. For that reason I think Michel Hazanavicious will win. However, you can’t discount Martin Scorcese. I think WoodyAllenshould win.
BEST PICTURE: The Artist will win because it is novel, an homage to the silent film era and it’s an intellectual choice everyone can feel good about. The only nominated film I didn’t see was Tree of Life. My pick is TheHelpprimarily because the others weren’t BEST.
Until an hour ago, I had never heard the term, Lifehacker. How strange is that? Well I’m sort of banking on the fact that many of you have not heard the word either.
A lifehacker is a secret way to make your life easier, or better and without great expense. After I read these, I thought it was a bit like reading Hints from Heloise, (you remember her don’t you?) Then I went on the website lifehacker.com and was astounded by the breadth and depth of the subjects and topics that are dealt with and they are chock full of great ideas. However, to clarify the source here; I took these from mental_floss.comand I understand that that web post copied them from Wildammo.com. So now that I’ve documented all the sources, I hope you enjoy reading these good tips, these lifehackers.
Take scratches off your CDs and DVDs with a ripe banana. Rub the banana on the CD/DVD surface, then use the underside of the peel to rub the banana in deeper, wipe clean with soft cloth and spritz off any smudges.
Store bed linen sets in one of pillowcases and you won’t have to search for any missing pieces.
Rubbing a walnut over the scratches in your furniture will disguise the dings and scrapes.
Use magnetic strips attached to the back of a medicine chest to hold bobby pins, tweezers, nail clippers etc.
Use an upside down muffin tin and bake cookie dough over the top and you will have baked cookie bowls for ice cream.
Take those ubiquitous little plastic bread loaf tags and attach them to the myriad cords under your desk. Mark the tag with the name of the device.
You can hull strawberries using a plastic straw, sounds simple enough.
Pump up the volume of your iPod or iPhone by placing in a bowl – the concave shape amplifies the sound.
Put a tension rod in your cleaning cabinet and you can gain valuable space by hanging spray bottles from it.
Find tiny lost items by putting a stocking over the vacuum cleaner’s hose and you will trap your lost item.
I believe flags should be flown half-mast for heroes and very important public officials of the state. I think Whitney Houston was beautiful, talented, probably a kind and loving person BUT I do not want my grandchildren to think she was a hero! She was a drug addict and you can call it a disease and that’s fine with me BUT it is not a disease that you contract like polio or cancer! It is a self-induced, self-inflicted affliction and the sick person has to own that. I tried to teach my own children to be responsible for their own actions and that every action has a consequence (good or bad).
So Governor Christie thinks she’s an icon of the state; That’s interesting, I never even knew she was from New Jersey and I have lived in the tri-state area my whole life. Sadly, more people associate Snooki from the show Jersey Shore as an icon and she doesn’t even come from New Jersey. I know FrankSinatra came from New Jersey and that Bruce Springsteencomes from New Jersey. I loved
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songs, I loved that he was Italian (as I am) and that he came from Hoboken, like my grandmother did but he was certainly no hero! Whitney Houston is NOT a hero; She was a fantastic singer/entertainer with a remarkable God-given gift and unfortunately for her and us, she took her own life and has robbed us of her gift.
I certainly hope no other celebrity dies soon, as I cherish their talents more and more each year as yet another and another slips away. New Jersey has been the birthplace of so much talent that if we were to fly the flags at half-masteach time one of them died, we would hardly have full mast flown flags. Here’s just a handful of New Jersey born celebrities:
Ever wonder where some of the phrases we use in our everyday language? I do and in this blog I have often featured phrases that once were common and now are obscure to generation X and Y. Sometimes a phrase fades away because it’s no longer applicable or contains words that have dropped out of usage.
PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS has come to mean let it all go, or let it all out, or put the force of 100% effort into something. This past Friday, Peter and I took our granddaughter, Finley, to the Morris Museum in Morristown, NJ. We really wanted to see their collection of antique music machines and automata. It is an amazing collection with gorgeous elaborate music boxes of every evolution and Living Dolls and Mechanical Musical Instruments ever since we saw the movie, HUGO.
Now you are wondering what does all that have to do with this blog post? The early Music Machines operated on a bellows system. The docent demonstrated several of the mechanical musical machines. There was large wooden instrument that worked with bellows and you could adjust the volume by pulling out a row of stoppers.
And there you have it -all the sound was let out, by pulling out all the stoppers!
I’m just one of hundreds maybe thousands of bloggers who will write a few words today extolling the virtuosity of Whitney’s magnificent voice and bemoaning the tragedy of her untimely death!
There will be eulogies in the newspapers, song retrospectives on the radio, youtube videos, and of course a meaningful tribute tonight on the Grammy’s. I don’t usually watch the Grammy’s because the fact is I don’t listen to really contemporary music. I freely admit it – I like classical music, all the songs from the Great American Songbook, some country-western and I love the music of my own youth; Doo Wop and the songs of the 70’s and 80’s.
I’m really sorry that Whitney Houston killed herself. Yes! She did! Whether intentionally or not as we will find out in the next few days, we know that her long love affair with drugs ended her life long before it should have. And that lays her death at her own feet.
Why? Who knows? On the news this morning, the usual trite explanatory phrase was used to describe this event. “She had her share of tragedy”. Well really now, I almost want to say who hasn’t? My own mother died when I was 9, I have friends who have lost a child to SIDS, to a car accident, and cancer before the child was 5. At least half of the population in their 30’s now, are products of divorce and yet NOT everyone succumbs to the escape of reality through drugs. And NOT everyone is as gifted and blessed as Whitney Houston was in talent. Not to mention, she was born into a family with roots in the music business and that certainly couldn’t have hurt her career and rise to stardom.
Whitney Houston joins the long list of self-destructive talented people who killed themselves by CHOOSING to do drugs: River Phoenix, Jimmy Hendrix, Heath Ledger, Marilyn Monroe, Janis Joplin, Jonathan Melvion, Nick Adams, Pier Angelli, Charles Boyer, Lenny Bruce, Kurt Cobain, Brian Cole, Judy Garland, Paul Gray, Michael Jackson, Brian Jones, Bruce Lee, Alan Ladd, Frankie Lymon, Billy MacKenzie, Keith Moon, Anna Nicole Smith, Jim Morrison, Brent Mydland, Elvis Presley, Freddie Prinze, Sid Vicious,Flattus Maximus, Layne Staley, Ike Turner, Dinah Washington, Mikey Welsh, Amy Winehouse. There were more, lots…but I was unfamiliar with some of the bands and not sure of their notoriety
So I’m not going to mourn Whitney Houston, the troubled person, I leave that to her mom, her daughter, even her ex-husband, Bobby Brown. BUT Whitney Houston, the singer with the extraordinary voice and style of her own. Yes. I’m sorry she died. We have her musical legacy and she will live on in the hearts of those who loved her songs and appreciated what she accomplished in the music world.
Bill Ding and his band of clowns are the security patrol for this blog site. He is a favorite toy from the 50*s. By the way sometimes a blog is just an ego-maniacal stream of conscience.
The Oscars-Who Will-Who Should WIN
Posted in From My Point of View - Personal commentary on Movies and Books on February 26, 2012| 2 Comments »
Oscar
The red carpet has rolled out, the nominees and wannabees are strolling in, all smiles glancing to the left and then the right. Right now it’s all about “WHO” are you wearing? Rooney in Givenchy doesn’t do it for me, although I love her looks, I don’t think the dress flatters her. Viola in Vera Wang, Tina Fey in Herrara, it’s the night to vote on talent and praise the stylists.
However, what I really want to blog about is who I think should win an Academy Award and who probably will. A couple hours from now, I’ll know how I sco
BEST ACTOR: Jean Dujardin will probably win. Brad Pitt should win because he put all his skills into making the character natural and believable.
BEST ACTRESS : Viola Davis seems to have edged out Meryl Streep in the last couple of weeks but I think it’s still a toss-up. Glen Close was outstanding in the difficult role of Albert Nobbs and she should win, but won’t.
BEST SUPPORTING ACTOR: Christopher Plummer will win and I think so too. He is “due” .
BEST SUPPORTING ACTRESS: What a tough race! Every nominee was fantastic in their roles. If Viola Davis doesn’t win Best Actress, then the Academy may pick Octavia Spencer. However, I think Janet McTeer will win and I pick her also. Melissa McCarthy was unbelievable – really can’t imagine playing her role.
BEST DIRECTOR: It is a rare year when the Best Director and the Best Movie are not one and the same. For that reason I think Michel Hazanavicious will win. However, you can’t discount Martin Scorcese. I think Woody Allen should win.
BEST PICTURE: The Artist will win because it is novel, an homage to the silent film era and it’s an intellectual choice everyone can feel good about. The only nominated film I didn’t see was Tree of Life. My pick is The Help primarily because the others weren’t BEST.
Personal Footnotes: Berenice Bejo is beautiful.
Demian Bechir is really good looking.
Michele Williams channeled Marilyn.
Watching Hugo stoned makes it better.
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