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I’ve been living in New York City for a long time and I admit that I don’t spend a lot of time in Central Park. So when I heard a beautiful bird song the other day, I stopped dead in my tracks.  It was a clear sweet sound and then it abruptly changed.  A lyrical trilling followed and then a distinct chirping… I couldn’t believe my ears but it sure sounded like a Mockingbird. Further investigation into a bush-like tree along the sidewalk and sure enough it was a Mockingbird; Peter and I saw the long tail and watched the little throat pulsate and the beak move as this lovely bird sang out.

What a great thrill it was and a surprise too!  Of course I know there are birds in New York City and those that read this blog steadily know I have posted many photos of birds taken by my friend Murray Head. He has shot photos of all kinds of birds from Egrets to Warblers, from Hawks (probably Pale Male) to Herons and Buntings to Thrushes. BUT those pictures are taken in Central Park where wildlife abounds and this was outside an office!

Anyway, this little ornithological treat got me to thinking about birds in Manhattan and I remembered something very, very interesting.

Several years ago, I was waiting on a corner  to cross the street when I heard a bird chirping and it sounded like it was right above me and it was.  I looked up and there sat a bird on the crosspiece pipe of a street lamp.  As I watched, the bird hopped to the end of the pipe and then disappeared inside the hole at the end.  What??? Yes! The bird went into the pipe.  I waited and soon the bird reappeared and took off but there were still chirps coming out of the pipe.  Amazing I thought.  A bird had built a nest inside the pipe where it was really safe from marauders and other dangers.  Wow, Mother Nature and the little sparrow’s survival skills were pretty impressive.

I mentioned it to Peter and he told me that he had seen this urban phenomena many times.  After that incident, I kept my ears open for the sound of birds on street corners and over and over again I did see birds housing themselves on City property.  Bird squatters I guess.  These spunky little Sparrows found a home in urban New York City.  It’s not that we don’t have lots and lots of tree-lined side streets because we do and I would guess there are bird’s nests in them but I’ve never seen one  and we have a LOT of street lights!!

Manhattan street light, New York City, sparrow nest

Home Sweet Home

Think about this; not only is the bird really protected from the elements in his little pipe house, there’s usually a trash can on every corner so I’m sure there is fairly endless supply of food crumbs for the picking as well as nest-building materials.  Just goes to show you how adaptable living creatures can be to their environment.  You do what you gotta do to survive wherever you are and whoever you are…reminds of the Country Mouse and the City Mouse.

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Already touted as the best movie of the year, I really enjoyed seeing this  film last week.  Best movie?  Well that may be a bit of a stretch… I think the most riveting aspect of The  Social Network is the portrayal of Mark Zuckerberg by Jessie Eisenberg.  He was quite amazing;  deadpan face, a voice devoid of emotion, totally lacking in any social graces and barely socialized as a member of the human race – I really wondered if the real Mark Zuckerberg is or was like this.  I mean this character is the geekiest of the geeks and the nerdiest of the nerds.

I think those of us who are extroverted and cognizant of society’s mores think those others like being that way;  that it’s a choice to be weird and withdrawn.  However,  we’re wrong – this movie is an insight into the pain of the outcast, the overlooked and the obvious misfit.

There are lots of ways to draw attention to yourself and most people do it  purposefully.   For example, it was difficult to determine if Mark’s choice of shorts and sandals in the winter were an affectation ( I think not) or was he just so…., SO unaware? Or I can’t even think of the word or words that describe someone who is not just walking to the beat of a different drummer, he is actually in another band all together.

I love Facebook;  it has enabled me to reconnect with old friends and neighbors; it has given me some interesting insights into my adult children’s world and I like playing Scrabble too. lol.  I think what I find fun and exciting in Facebook is pretty universal…so how did this great social network have its genesis in the twisted and distorted vision of a young alienated college kid?  I don’t know and he’s (Mark) not saying!  The movie leads us to believe that basically the first incarnation of what later became Facebook was a website rating the hotness of female students in Harvard and surrounding schools.

Mark’s uncanny ability to write program and his roommate’s ability to write checks ultimately produced the web site that has rocked the world!  And made Mark a billionaire and put some big bucks in a few other pockets too because this rise to financial stardom came with the price tag of  the  lost friendship of  the only friend he had, attorney’s fees, lawsuits and a bunch of hangers-on who drank and drugged with his money.  And while the booze flowed and the entourage grew larger and larger,  he seemed oblivious to the fact that he was losing both control and his partner.

But it was all about the pain; the longing to be with a girl who would accept him for he was; a nerd and  a geek and a very brilliant one at that.  The website wasn’t a way to meet girls  but rather a weapon; a means  to strike back at all the girls who over the years had  ignored him, humiliated him and rejected  him.

There was one particular characteristic that I found oddly refreshing in a shocking sort of way.  It was the way in which Mark spoke to people; seemingly unconscious that his words might hurt someone, or that his remarks might be inappropriate.  He opened his mouth and what came out was  exactly what was on his mind, he never minced words.  In some instances, it was his own self-aggrandizement and his complete confidence in his own point of view that kept him from tempering his words, often insulting people with his own knowledge.

Interesting insight into Napster creator, Shawn Fanning and the seduction of Mark Zuckerberg by this high-flying wheeler-dealer Californian.

The last word – Facebook is a raving social network success in spite of Mark Zuckerberg, the most un-socialized persona I’ve ever come across.

 

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THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! I have a fall harvest of Six Word Memoirs from my readers to share with you all today.  Bountiful it is!

  1. Life is good. Live for today! – Heather
  2. Sh_ _ _ y bidding war against neighbor/friend – Heide
  3. Semi-retirement? Where did it go? – Gail
  4. Please keep your germs to yourself – startingoveringermany
  5. My hands hurt, love yard work – Esther
  6. Fueled by spunk, gumption and vodka – Weez
  7. 8 more working days till vacation – Susan Celtic Lady
  8. I miss you Art, come home! – Esther
  9. I’m a Gigi again – Helloooo Frankie – Me

I don’t want to say I told you so but see how easy it is!  Six words, no more, no less – One life – What’s yours?

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The first real chilly and very breezy day of the season was yesterday and so since we had invited our next door neighbors to join us for dinner, I could see that a cook-out was definitely out of the question! Hard to believe that last Saturday, we were sitting on the beach in bathing suits no less! Well all the windows were shut all day in an effort to keep the cottage somewhat warm and not have to put the heat on yet.  We were going to need a good hot meal… so this is what I served:

Antipasta platter

Bowtie Pasta with Vodka Blush & Chicken

Green Beans with a garlic cheese finishing butter

Mixed Green Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette

Fresh Italian bread with sun dried tomatoes in it. (Costco)

Homemade coffee cake, fresh fruit salad and coffee

Bowtie Pasta with Vodka Blush & Chicken

1 lb Farfalle pasta, cooked according to preference

24oz of Vodka Blush sauce

1 Tbsp olive oil

1 # Chicken cutlets marinated in Lemon & Garlic (I bought them already marinated)

1 Tbsp basting oil (purchased)**

1Tbsp butter

4 tsp of shredded Parmigiano-Reggiano Cheese

Simmer sauce on low in small saucepan

Heat Olive oil in large pan on MEDIUM-HIGH till oil fairly smokes, add chicken. Turn when chicken changes color one-quarter of the way  up and seared side has turned paper bag brown, 3  4 minutes.

Reduce heat to MEDIUM; cook chicken 10-12 minutes, until internal temperature reaches 165 degrees.

Add basting oil and butter to pan, swirl.  Baste chicken with spoon 1 – 3 minutes. Transfer to clean plate.

Toss pasta with sauce. Divide evenly on 4 plates, top with chicken and sprinkle with 1 tsp of cheese.

Recipe from Wegman’s  MENU Magazine

The green beans were blanched and then tossed with a “finishing butter” which is seasoned with garlic and cheese.

My neighbor made the delicious homemade coffee cake.

This is what I learned: The chicken cutlets were thick and took longer than recommended time and were not reaching 165 degrees – so I covered pan for a bit so they wouldn’t dry out.  I used freshly made (and purchased) Vodka Blush sauce but believe you can use a jar of Vodka sauce.  A pound of Farfalle was too much pasta for 4 people, you could cook less or save the leftover like I have for next day.  The recipe does not call for slicing the chicken cutlet when you put on top  of the pasta but the photo in magazine suggests that.  ** You can make your own basting oil by combining grape seed oil and canola oil with dried thyme, dried parsley and garlic powder.

**** Sorry that so many of these ingredients were purchased at Wegman’s and you might not have one near you.  Wegman’s carries their own line of products like the basting oil, the Vodka Blush fresh sauce and the finishing butters.

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Grey Catbird / Dumetella carolinensis

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Obscure Origins of Common Phrases

It was Friday night and we were watching MSNBC and Keith Oberman was reading a short story from a James Thurber book.  For those of you who are NOT leaning left and were listening to some Fox news rhetoric, this reading always takes place on a Friday evening on his show. Anyway, at some point in the story, this paragraph was read:

“She must be a Dodger fan. Red Barber announces the Dodger games over the radio and he uses those expressions… ‘sitting in the catbird seat’ means sitting pretty, like a batter with three balls and no strikes on him.”

Heard it all my life, know what it means and wondered buy why and how did it come about.  My guess last night was that it had something to do with sailing and boy was I ever wrong!!!

The phrase is of American origin and refers to the common gray catbird who is in the same group of birds that the Mockingbird is in and they are known as mimic thrushes. The Catbird can mimic the sound of a cat meowing.  The catbird seeks the highest perch to sing and display.  It may also have been the source of an earlier term with much the same meaning – sitting pretty.


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Thursday’s Top Ten

  1. The Social Network: Eduardo flies out to California to meet up with Mark and he is soaking wet, his hair and bangs are down on his face.  Then he meets privately with Mark and in one of the camera cuts his hair is back in place, his bangs is off his forehead AND clearly he had no time or opportunity to fix it.
  2. Wall Street 2 – Money Never Sleeps: Several times when Jacob is riding his motorcycle, you can see the cameraman in the reflection from his helmet.
  3. Wall Street 2 – Money Never Sleeps: Gekko and his future son-in-law are riding in a cab and the meter reads $2.90 and the extra fee reads $1.50 –  at the end of a fairly lengthy ride the meter still reads $2.90.
  4. The Town: In the scene where Doug and his brother are talking at the cemetery, Doug’s jacket’s zipper goes from completely zipped to halfway unzipped all by itself.
  5. Easy A: After Olive has been to the principal’s office, she and Rhiannon are walking away leaning on each other in the front-on shot and immediately following are standing a foot apart.
  6. Devil: In the scene when the  fire department arrives in the pouring rain and when they get inside they are dry.
  7. Devil: The maintenance man falls onto the elevator but when they finally open the elevator, his body is not on top.
  8. Shutter Island: When Leo is laying hid dead kids on the grass, the little girl’s eyelids flutter and she is visibly breathing.
  9. The Book of Eli: The type of book Eli is protecting would be just a fragment – the bible in Braille composes about 18 books.
  10. The Bounty Hunter: Milo gets out of the car to pump gas but they are in New Jersey where it is illegal to pump your own gas.

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Oh the sweet memories of youth!  I can remember the eternal and annual question of the month – October that is:  What are you going to be for Halloween? Now depending on who was asking, you either told or said “I’m not telling, it’s a secret”. I miss going out for Halloween and I’m talking about going out with my friends, not taking my kids out.  My husband always did that because I LOVED getting dressed up and scaring the bejesus out of the kids who came to the door.  I carved the pumpkins, set up the spooky music and had a ball!  And I got to eat  Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups between Trick or Treaters.

Anyway, I thought you might enjoy some Halloween inspiration as we approach my favorite holiday.

 

Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head, Ghouls

Yeeks There Are Three of Them!

photo by Murray Head

 

 

Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head, KISS

KISS on Steroids

photo by Murray Head

 

 

Greenwich Village Halloween parade, Murray Head,

GREEN with ENVY

photo by Murray Head

 

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If it’s Monday it must be Six Word Memoir Monday and so it is.  It’s a holiday today and I’m wondering if by the time I get to write my six words, an inspiration will come…  In the meantime, there are readers and blog followers who each week look introspectively into their daily lives and send forth some great memoirs!!

I was having an awful day – startingoveringermany (http://startingoveringermany.wordpress.com/)

Heart divided between NYC and TexasGrace Gotham (gracegothamnyc.com)

Rather be playing banjo at Shakey’sWeez

Mind goes blank – no memoir today –Gail

First day diet – 10 to go – Me

Each week I try to encourage my readers to think about summing up their lives in six words – no more – no less. Can you? will you?  It’s fun and you will be in the blog the following week.

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The angle of the sun has changed and the shadows at 1:00 in the afternoon are longer than they have been all summer.  The life guards have gone back to college, the dogs are back on the beach frolicking and chasing each other or balls or waves.  People are riding their bicycles on the once forbidden boardwalk, there is hardly anyone on the beach and most are  wearing shorts and not bathing suits – This is a Sunny Sunday in October in Ocean Grove.

 

Ocean Grove, goldenrod, sand dunes, beach, kite, October

Kite Over Goldenrod

 

photo by Lori

 

Two By the Sea Shore

 

photo by Lori

jersey shore, ocean grove, orange berries

Orange Berries on the Path to the Beach

 

 

photo by Lori

 

 

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Pine Tree on the Pathway to South Beach in Ocean Grove

 

photo by Lori

 

 

jersey shore, Ocean Grove, Sunday at the shore

Sunday at the Shore in October

 

photo by Lori

 

Red flower, Jersey shore, Ocean Grove

Red Flowers at the Shore

 

photo by Lori


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Paraprosdokian Sentences

A paraprosdokian is a figure of speech in which the latter part of a sentence or phrase is surprising or unexpected in a way that causes the reader or listener to reframe or reinterpret the first part.  It is frequently used for humorous or dramatic effect.

I asked God for a bike, but I know God doesn’t work that way.  So I stole a bike and asked for forgiveness.

Do not argue with an idiot.  He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.

I want to die peacefully in my sleep, like my grandfather.  Not screaming and yelling like the passengers in his car.

Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian any  more than standing in a a garage makes you a car.

The last thing I want to do is hurt you. But it’s still on the list.

Light travels faster than sound.  This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.

If I agreed with you,, we’d both be wrong.

We never really grow up; we only learn how to act in public.

War does not determine who is right – only who is left.

Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit; Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.

The early bird might get the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese.

Evening news is where they begin with “Good evening” and then proceed to tell you why it isn’t.

To steal ideas from one person is plagiarism.  To steal from many is research.

A bus station is where a bus stops.  A train station is where a train stops.  My desk is work station.  A work station is…

How is it one careless match can start a forest fire, but it takes a whole box to start a campfire.

Some people are like Slinkies…not really good for anything but you can’t  help smilingwhen you see one tumble down the stairs.


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