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Chiara Clark, Frankie, Francesca Clark, St. Thomas Moore RC church

Francesca's Christening

My beautiful daughter and her baby girl, Francesca.  Today was the day of Frankie’s baptism and she seems concerned as to what’s going happen next.  The water was bad enough!!!

The Christening gown that Francesca is wearing was worn by her sister, Finley Ray last year and by her mother Chiara, 34 years ago.  In 1977 I purchased the gown from an antique dealer I knew who dealt in vintage baby clothes.  At that time, she said the gown was 50 years old.

It was thrilling for me to see this beautiful piece of antique linen, a family heirloom now, worn by the youngest family member. And isn’t she just beautiful too?

 

St Thomas Moore RC church, Frankie, Francesca Clark, Chiara Clark

I'm not a donut, why are you dunking me?

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Founder of the Republic of Turkey Mustafa Kema...

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In true New Year’s Eve tradition, my husband and I went to a local restaurant/coffee shop (The Mansion) which was hosting a private party for their regular customers.  This was the first year we were around to go and it was just delightful.  The counters were laden with crackers and cheese, smoked salmon, salad and deli meats and as promised in the invitation an endless supply of cheeseburgers and pigs in a blanket were passed among the guests.  AND the champagne flowed and flowed and flowed.

The invitation indicated it was “Black Tie” and we decided we would definitely dress accordingly.  I wish I had insisted on taking his picture before we left the house because Peter was quite the dandy in his White Tie and Tails.  YES he did wear “tails”; a beautiful custom-made tail coat from 1947 with a white vest and white tie and black patent leather shoes!   I was a little creative in my outfit, donning black pants and black camisole with one of Peter’s white bow ties around my neck and I wore a shawl-collared tuxedo jacket.  When we sat down at our table, there were black Fedora hats for the men and silver and black tiaras for the women as well as horns and noise-makers.  The whole place looked great!

We planned on attending this gala event with our old friend, Cary; he and Peter have been friends for about 40 years!  We arrived first and secured a nice booth in the front room, first glass of champagne in hand.  Shortly after we sat down, I noticed a young woman sitting at a nearby table by herself.  At first I thought perhaps she was waiting for someone to join her but on second thought since she was already eating, it occurred to me she might be alone.  So I suggested to Peter that he ask her to join us – not my usual style and very spontaneous.  And Catherine happily accepted our invitation.  One of the comforting aspects of the evening was  most likely the party-goers would be neighbors of ours, since this is a local diner.

Catherine proved to be an enchanting addition to our table and Peter and Cary enjoyed regaling her with stories.  We soon found out that her parents were expected to arrive any moment and that they lived two doors down from us!  Catherine had a previously made plan to join a friend for the rest of the evening but we soon dissuaded her from that idea – she should stay with us!

Eileen (sp?) and Frank, Catherine’s parents arrived and joined us and it quickly became the more the merrier. The ‘thing” about The Mansion and more specifically Phil and John is that the welcoming atmosphere encourages neighbors to meet and talk with one another.  Before the evening ended, we were sure that we had found neighbors who we would welcome meeting again.  Cary is a singer and entertainer and performs weekly at The Triad theater and what better way to extend the conviviality of the evening by other than making a plan for all of us to attend his show.  The plan is tentative at this point but I  am hoping we can all go in mid-January while my son, Joel is visiting.

A long and winding tale I know, to get to the crux of the story and title of the blog, however, I do believe New Year’ s Eve  is  the best night of the year to ring out the old and ring in the new  with old gold and new silver friends.

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Previously I tried to capture some of my Christmas decor in the cottage, but I don’t think the photos did justice to the look.   Murray was here for Christmas  dinner and he snapped a few “arty” pictures and I love them, so I’m sharing them!!

Bah Humbug doll, Ocean Grove, La Vie en Rose, Christmas morning

Bah Humbug

photo by Murray Head

Nativity scene, Prince of Egypt camel, La Vie en Rose, Ocean Grove

The Prince of Egypt's Camel

photo by Murray Head

Cinderella, Jacques, Christmas La Vie en Rose, christmas morning,

Jacques!

photo by Murray Head

vintage ornaments, greens, Christmas ornaments,Ocean Grove,LaVie en Rose

Vintage Christmas Ornaments

red napkins, reindeer napkin rings,Christmas dinner,

Reindeer At The Ready

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Welcome to my house! That’s what the luminaries are supposed to convey to the world.  In true Roman Catholic tradition these luminarias were lit along the pathway to a home in hopes that the lights would guide the spirit of the Christ Child to one’s home.  Tonight we welcomed our friends into our home to share the spirit of Christmas with us and what a fine time we had.  We ate a lot, drank a lot of champagne, and  laughed a lot.

Christmas night, luminarias, Ocean Grove

Welcome!!

 

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The simple joys of community, kids eagerly awaiting Santa Claus‘s arrival, free hot cider and ginger snaps, a crisp cold night and lots of fire trucks lined up on Main Avenue – that’s what was happening in Ocean Grove tonight.  Peter and I joined our friends, Trish and Ron at the Fireman’s Park early in the evening.  The volunteer Fire Department of our little town sponsors this annual event.

Santa’s sleigh was in the park  awaiting his arrival by fire truck!  That was a sight and a sound!  At least 6 fire trucks and an Emergency vehicle came wheeling down Main Avenue with sirens wailing and lights flashing.  The kids screamed and jumped up and down because Santa Claus was coming.  By the way, Trish did too!!!

We sipped piping hot cider and munched on ginger snaps and watched the long line of kids wend their way to Santa.  Once on his lap, you could see  joy on the faces of  the little ones – the believers!

Santa Claus, Ocean grove,Christmas Eve,

Santa Claus Arrives

photo by Trish Martin

Ocean Grove, Fireman's park,Christmas Evep

Mrs. Santa Claus Came Along for the Ride

photo by Trish Martin

Fireman's Park, Ocean Grove, Christmas Eve

I Believe

photo by Trish Martin

Ocean grove, Fireman's park, Christmas Eve

Trish and Ron

 

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Thank you (you know who you are) for bailing me out after my whining last week!  Great response to my weekly request for contributions to the Six Word Project every Monday.  They are as always terrific to read and speculate what your thought process was to produce it.

Planning another royal wedding! Oh my!! – Heather

Holiday festivities get earlier and earlier – Gail

Any pictures of the new baby? Susan Celtic Lady

Really missing the sound of laughter – Weez

Economics rule-Emily decided on Florida – Heide

Talking to myself more these days – Me

And a few from the book, Not Quite What I Was Planning-Six Word Memoirs by Writers Famous & Obscure.

I asked. They answered. I wrote. – Sebastion Junger

Extremely responsible, secretly longed for spontaneity – Sabra Jennings

Joined army. Came out. Got booted. – Johan Baumeister

Almost a victim of my family – Chuck Sangster

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THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! I have a fall harvest of Six Word Memoirs from my readers to share with you all today.  Bountiful it is!

  1. Life is good. Live for today! – Heather
  2. Sh_ _ _ y bidding war against neighbor/friend – Heide
  3. Semi-retirement? Where did it go? – Gail
  4. Please keep your germs to yourself – startingoveringermany
  5. My hands hurt, love yard work – Esther
  6. Fueled by spunk, gumption and vodka – Weez
  7. 8 more working days till vacation – Susan Celtic Lady
  8. I miss you Art, come home! – Esther
  9. I’m a Gigi again – Helloooo Frankie – Me

I don’t want to say I told you so but see how easy it is!  Six words, no more, no less – One life – What’s yours?

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The first real chilly and very breezy day of the season was yesterday and so since we had invited our next door neighbors to join us for dinner, I could see that a cook-out was definitely out of the question! Hard to believe that last Saturday, we were sitting on the beach in bathing suits no less! Well all the windows were shut all day in an effort to keep the cottage somewhat warm and not have to put the heat on yet.  We were going to need a good hot meal… so this is what I served:

Antipasta platter

Bowtie Pasta with Vodka Blush & Chicken

Green Beans with a garlic cheese finishing butter

Mixed Green Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette

Fresh Italian bread with sun dried tomatoes in it. (Costco)

Homemade coffee cake, fresh fruit salad and coffee

Bowtie Pasta with Vodka Blush & Chicken

1 lb Farfalle pasta, cooked according to preference

24oz of Vodka Blush sauce

1 Tbsp olive oil

1 # Chicken cutlets marinated in Lemon & Garlic (I bought them already marinated)

1 Tbsp basting oil (purchased)**

1Tbsp butter

4 tsp of shredded Parmigiano-Reggiano Cheese

Simmer sauce on low in small saucepan

Heat Olive oil in large pan on MEDIUM-HIGH till oil fairly smokes, add chicken. Turn when chicken changes color one-quarter of the way  up and seared side has turned paper bag brown, 3  4 minutes.

Reduce heat to MEDIUM; cook chicken 10-12 minutes, until internal temperature reaches 165 degrees.

Add basting oil and butter to pan, swirl.  Baste chicken with spoon 1 – 3 minutes. Transfer to clean plate.

Toss pasta with sauce. Divide evenly on 4 plates, top with chicken and sprinkle with 1 tsp of cheese.

Recipe from Wegman’s  MENU Magazine

The green beans were blanched and then tossed with a “finishing butter” which is seasoned with garlic and cheese.

My neighbor made the delicious homemade coffee cake.

This is what I learned: The chicken cutlets were thick and took longer than recommended time and were not reaching 165 degrees – so I covered pan for a bit so they wouldn’t dry out.  I used freshly made (and purchased) Vodka Blush sauce but believe you can use a jar of Vodka sauce.  A pound of Farfalle was too much pasta for 4 people, you could cook less or save the leftover like I have for next day.  The recipe does not call for slicing the chicken cutlet when you put on top  of the pasta but the photo in magazine suggests that.  ** You can make your own basting oil by combining grape seed oil and canola oil with dried thyme, dried parsley and garlic powder.

**** Sorry that so many of these ingredients were purchased at Wegman’s and you might not have one near you.  Wegman’s carries their own line of products like the basting oil, the Vodka Blush fresh sauce and the finishing butters.

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Now that those lazy hazy days of summer are a thing of the past and crisp air has brought us all to attention…it seems that this seasonal shift has inspired many readers to respond to the Six Word Memoir challenge.  My reader/writers are coming out of the woodwork and sharing some really great Six Word Memoirs – and I’m pleased to present them to you.

Come see the greatest show ever! – Lauren

Joel and Chiara – Thank you God – Dennis

Parents sixty-five years married-Celebrating!! – Susan Celtic Lady

Under the oak trees, leaves fall – Esther

Getting that wanderlust urge once again – Weez

Illness, pain, friends, help, treatment, recovery – Susan

Lori’s blog, evolving with every week – Gail

Day in, day out, same thing – creepyoldguy

Time to turn on the heat – startingoveringermany

I can’t believe I missed a week! – Susan Celtic Lady

Holidays why the blues this year? – Me

Let’s keep it going, it isn’t as hard as you think.  It can be about your life as a whole or in the moment, a passion, a crisis, a feeling.  Channel your Ernest Hemingway and look for your reply here next week!!!


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For some reason I thought you  were supposed to be able to catch up on your sleep over the weekends.  What a concept! Last weekend which was chronicled here as you know brought us to the ER at 11:30pm with our friend Heide and we didn’t get home till 2am!  And our friend, Joe, was in the ER that day too but at least he was there during the day and our friends, Susan and Jim were in vigilance then.

This weekend just as I was winding down on my computer and had finished  copying (yet) more recipes, both of our cats, Nick and Nora were in front of the screen door to the front porch.  Nick was crouched and Nora had her back up – Peter said he saw something moving on the porch.  The wind was pretty strong as a storm was coming in and several times I thought I saw something moving outside on the porch but it was just the flag waving in the wind.

It was not the wind but rather a big black dog who was wagging her tail and crying to come in! What the heck?? A dog on our porch and it was almost midnight!! We turned on the lights and there she was, jet black, tail wagging furiously and crying as only a dog who wants to come in does.  She looked like a Black Labrador Retriever with maybe a little Pit Bull but maybe not. Nora hissed as she knew any self-respecting cat would when a dog arrives on your doorstep.  Nicky leaned into the screen, nose against it and watched with the utmost curiosity-he’s definitely friendlier and more tolerant than Nora.

Well now what to do? Peter is beside himself because the dog doesn’t have a collar on and we wondered why someone was not looking for this pooch.  We stood on the sidewalk and looked up and down the street, straining our ears to hear someone calling out for a dog.  Nothing….No one….  We were not about to leave him on the porch – for one thing she was whimpering and crying to get into the house and incessantly wagging her tail.

Finally we decided to call Jim and Susan because like who else do you call in Ocean Grove when there’s an emergency? I called the cell-no answer so I called the house phone and got Susan.  True to her giving and caring nature, she said,”I’ll put my jeans on and come over” .  They arrived shortly thereafter with several collars and a leash. I said, “why don’t we just take the dog straight to the emergency room”?  LOL

We waited around hoping someone would cruise by looking for the dog.  Susan tried calling Cindy who runs the Dawg Joint but it was midnight and no answer.  Susan then thought to call the police.  The Neptune police said no one had called in a lost dog but they would come and pick it up if we wanted them to.  That was an idea however, they would keep the dog overnight and by 8am the next morning the Humane Society would get the dog.  This sounded way too tenuous for us because what would happen to the dog after a few days at the Humane Society…we didn’t want to think about the consequences.  So Susan left her cell phone number and gave the police a description of the dog.  And then she called the Bradley Beach police to give them the information and her cell.  Not more than 5 minutes went by when her phone rang.  It was the Neptune police department who had a woman on the line who was reporting a lost dog.  She reconfirmed the description and hooray, the dog’s owner was coming to get her.

In less than 5 minutes a car pulled up with a very anxious and teary “mommy”.  As soon as the dog saw “mommy” there was no more crying or whimpering- just tail-wagging.  Once owner and dog were reunited we learned our visitor’s name was Haley and she had been missing for over 2 hours!  They had cruised our street and were scouring the surrounding side streets in hopes of spotting her – not so easy to see a black dog in the middle of the night.

Haley went home with her owners and it turns out they live down the street from us so we’ll surely see Haley again on one of her walks.  All’s well that ends well or so they say.  As for the four of us, it seems like the beginning of another sleepless weekend – it was now 1am!!

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