October 25, 2010 by pbenjay
Halloween used to be all about orange and black and not much else. Orange jack-o-lanterns, black cats, black witches…but now…Well it’s Monday and we have:
The Monday Morning Boo’s

Big Blue Bottle Nose
photo by Murray Head

Busty Blue Boa
photo by Murray Head

Bluer Than Blue Bandeau
photo by Murray Head

Blue Belles of Dallas
photo by Murray Head
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Mirror, Mirror on the Wall...
photo by Murray Head
Posted in BY THE WAY, Fab Fotos, New York Speaks, Only in New York | Tagged Black cat, Dallas Cheerleaders, Greenwich Village Halloween Parade, Halloween, Jack-O-Lantern, Pumpkin, Snow White Evil Queen, Trick-or-treating | Leave a Comment »
October 24, 2010 by pbenjay
Well now it’s really count down time….7 days left to come up with your cleverest, spookiest, scariest, ghoulish costume. Need some ideas? LOOK at these:
BLACK & WHITE RULE THE NIGHT
- Not Getting Enough Sleep
photo by Murray Head

Frankenstein
photo by Murray Head

You Don't Think The Brooch Is Too Busy, Do You?
photo by Murray Head

Elderly Spiderman
photo by Murray Head

Riker's Island Call Girls
photo by Murray Head

The White Angel of .....

Nom de Plume

White Elephant Sale
photos by Murray Head
Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged angel, Frankenstein, Greenwich Village Halloween Parade, jail birds, ostrich feathers. plumes, prisoners, Spiderman, white elephant | 3 Comments »
October 24, 2010 by pbenjay
I’ve been living in New York City for a long time and I admit that I don’t spend a lot of time in Central Park. So when I heard a beautiful bird song the other day, I stopped dead in my tracks. It was a clear sweet sound and then it abruptly changed. A lyrical trilling followed and then a distinct chirping… I couldn’t believe my ears but it sure sounded like a Mockingbird. Further investigation into a bush-like tree along the sidewalk and sure enough it was a Mockingbird; Peter and I saw the long tail and watched the little throat pulsate and the beak move as this lovely bird sang out.
What a great thrill it was and a surprise too! Of course I know there are birds in New York City and those that read this blog steadily know I have posted many photos of birds taken by my friend Murray Head. He has shot photos of all kinds of birds from Egrets to Warblers, from Hawks (probably Pale Male) to Herons and Buntings to Thrushes. BUT those pictures are taken in Central Park where wildlife abounds and this was outside an office!
Anyway, this little ornithological treat got me to thinking about birds in Manhattan and I remembered something very, very interesting.
Several years ago, I was waiting on a corner to cross the street when I heard a bird chirping and it sounded like it was right above me and it was. I looked up and there sat a bird on the crosspiece pipe of a street lamp. As I watched, the bird hopped to the end of the pipe and then disappeared inside the hole at the end. What??? Yes! The bird went into the pipe. I waited and soon the bird reappeared and took off but there were still chirps coming out of the pipe. Amazing I thought. A bird had built a nest inside the pipe where it was really safe from marauders and other dangers. Wow, Mother Nature and the little sparrow’s survival skills were pretty impressive.
I mentioned it to Peter and he told me that he had seen this urban phenomena many times. After that incident, I kept my ears open for the sound of birds on street corners and over and over again I did see birds housing themselves on City property. Bird squatters I guess. These spunky little Sparrows found a home in urban New York City. It’s not that we don’t have lots and lots of tree-lined side streets because we do and I would guess there are bird’s nests in them but I’ve never seen one and we have a LOT of street lights!!

Home Sweet Home
Think about this; not only is the bird really protected from the elements in his little pipe house, there’s usually a trash can on every corner so I’m sure there is fairly endless supply of food crumbs for the picking as well as nest-building materials. Just goes to show you how adaptable living creatures can be to their environment. You do what you gotta do to survive wherever you are and whoever you are…reminds of the Country Mouse and the City Mouse.
Posted in BY THE WAY, New York Speaks, Only in New York | Tagged Central Park, egret, Heron, Manhattan, Mother Nature, Murray Head, New York City, Northern Mockingbird, Pale Male, sparrow | 1 Comment »
October 23, 2010 by pbenjay
Whoooo I can feel the vibes of Halloween all around me. I ‘m in Boston and today, Saturday, there must have been a big Halloween happening at Prudential Mall because we saw lots of little kids dressed up early today and heading that way. Unfortunately Finley had to go home to take a nap and Francesca needed to be fed.
Anyway as the count down continues so do the photos from previous Greenwich Village Parades.
I’m calling this series The Devil Made Me Do It!

Devil from South of the Border
photo by Murray Head
photo by Murray Head

She Devil Takes A Call
photo by Murray Head

Devilish
photo by Murray Head
Posted in Fab Fotos, New York Speaks, Only in New York | Tagged Costume, demon, Devil, Halloween, Lucifer, Trick-or-treating | 3 Comments »
October 22, 2010 by pbenjay
Sometimes you can walk through Greenwich Village and see some characters you just aren’t going to find on Maple Street in Iowa. BUT, on Halloween, THEY ALL come out of the woodwork, the closet, and some look like they escaped from the Institute. These are photos from previous annual Greenwich Village Halloween Parades.
Nine Days to go…. I’m calling this series Wigs and Wings

Wind Beneath My Wings

I'm Feeling So Blue Over You

A Rogue Mummer

"Oh YES I AM"!

On Eagle's Wings

It Must Have Been Warm That Year
Posted in Fab Fotos, New York Speaks, Only in New York | Tagged Costume, Greenwich Village, Halloween, Iowa, Murray Head, New York City, New York's Village Halloween Parade, wigs, wings | Leave a Comment »
October 21, 2010 by pbenjay
Those of you who know me and my collections already know that there are MANY vintage toys and games in our house. They are not all childhood favorites however, some are just collected for the beauty of their design and graphics. Being a woman of a certain age now, I’m pretty sure some of my favorites will be toys many of my readers have never even heard of!!!! Luckily I also have readers who are part of that post-war baby boom era too, and I don’t mean Vietnam.
These are toys and games I remember playing with most fondly:
- BILL DING – well I had to put him as number one because he belongs to this blog. He is my gravatar and he and his gang of clowns guard this site. He is also very special to me because when I first met my husband, Peter and we prowled through antique shops and flea markets, I mentioned to him that I would love to find this certain toy from my past – Bill Ding. When Christmas came, Peter gave me a narrow rectangular box, the kind a necklace would be in and of course that’s what I expected to find. Instead, there he was, well not exactly he because the blue clown in the box was not Bill Ding himself but it didn’t matter. I was SO excited to see this little wooden, blue, building-block clown, I couldn’t believe he had found one – by the way this was pre-Ebay days! To this day, that very first Bill Ding clown sits on a shelf in our bedroom. Over the years I collected many many more Bill Dings and they live all over the apartment. I have introduced both my grandson, Cash and my granddaughter, Finley to the joys of stacking and creating pyramids with these smiling wooden characters.
- Melody Bells – I remember the Christmas I got Melody Bells as a gift. I think my Uncle Franklin gave them to me. I played and played with them till I’m sure I drove my parents crazy. What was great about these bells was that the little songbook that came with them showed you how to play a tune by color. Each bell was a different color and you could play the notes by ringing the bell of that color. I guess I have always learned things more visually – I make Peter nuts when I refer to the Number 6 subway train as the green line and the Broadway train as the red line. He, of course being a true New Yorker refers to the subway lines as the IRT and RBT and the IND. I mean, really!! He is, of course, much older than me, lol lol.
- Candy Land – I know the game is still around and every time I see one at a thrift shop or flea market I check it out to see if the board has the old graphics, but it never does. If it did, I would buy it. I can remember playing this game for hours with my girlfriends…hoping to pick the Ice Cream Float card or the Gum Drop Mountain card. The graphics had that great 1950’s look about them. Now I understand, the game has characters, geez! And I’ve seen the game boards of recent years – NO they’re not as great looking as the oldies. Help me get out of the Molasses Swamp!
- Ball & Jacks – Really better known to me and my friends as just Jacks. Hours and hours were spent shaking those jacks in your hand and perfecting your toss so you could scoop up the requisite number and not touch the remaining pieces. Ah technique, the sweeping of the palm of your hand and your pinky finger scooping up a trailing jack. Little red balls bouncing all over the place especially if we played on our front steps and the ball hit an uneven spot. What I remember is that I had real jacks, not the thin gray jacks that you could bend and break. NO, my father got me cast metal jacks and they were in different colors; they were bigger, heavier and made a lot more noise when you played with them on one of the hardwood floors. Jacks are wonderful because you could amuse yourself for hours or play with your friends.
- Clue: Also game still produced and played and need I even say that the older version was better? Well maybe the board wasn’t as snazzy as it is today and the character were only drawn faces and not photo-like images of real people as they are now BUT, the weapons were much more real. Yes truly – my set which was given to me about 1955 was a pretty early version since Parker Bros. bought the rights in 1949. My set had a little lead pipe that actually was a soft lead and could bend, the rope really was a piece of twine fashioned into a hangman’s noose. I loved Colonel Mustard, Mrs. White, Mr. Green and Miss Scarlet.
- Paper Dolls and Guns – Paper Dolls were not so much a favorite of mine but rather a playtime activity I remember doing with my girlfriends. I think Susan and Kakky (a nickname) had more Paper Dolls than I did; I was really a tomboy. However, I remember clearly that I had a Rhonda Fleming paper doll set and June Allyson. Why I had only movie stars I don’t know, but my dad bought them for me. Susan will probably read this so she can confirm, but I think she had the Betsy McCall Paper Dolls and one of us may have had Shirley Temple. Guns, well that was another whole thing. My father worked for J & E Stevens Co. and they manufactured toy guns. Their Guns were famous and prized for their weight, style and mechanical reliability. You could always tell a J & E toy gun by the ivory handle with a jewel in the handle. And I had caps too! Love the smell of a popped cap. Rolls and rolls of pale red paper strips, all my guns were cap pistols. I had beautiful holster sets too. I remember one particular pale tan double holster set with the silver bullets and it had rawhide laces to strap to your legs – God, I was the envy of every boy in the neighborhood!!
- Cootie – Loved to play this game with my cousins from New Jersey. I used to spend summers with them when I was about 10 and we played Cootie a lot. I always wanted the pink body (somethings never change). They were so cute! They had legs, antennae, a proboscis.
- Pick Up Stix – This was another of those games that required patience, a steady hand and some measure of analytical skill. And also again, this is game you could play by yourself or with friends. How many times did I hold that bunch of colorful sticks, drop them and then carefully (you couldn’t move another stick) extricate the sticks one by one. Of course today, I’m sure the mothers don’t let their kids play with any object that has points; thankfully none of my friends poked their eyes out!
- Hula Hoop, Roller Skating and Jump Rope, Hop Scotch – Just in case you thought all of my playtime was sedentary, it sure wasn’t. I still can’t figure out how I was able to roll that hoop around my hips for HOURS and now I can’t make it stay up even one loop!!! We all had Hula Hoops and soon we were twirling the hoops at our knees and shimmying them up. We could even make several hoops loop around at the same time. And we all had Roller Skates; the old metal ones with ball bearing wheels and a skate key to tighten the clamps that held the skates onto our shoes. I lived in an area where everyone had a driveway and the road was safe to skate on too. Double-Dutch jump rope was something we did every spring. I wasn’t as good at Double-Dutch, but did like just skipping rope with those red wooden handled Jump Ropes that we somehow got new every year. You knew it was Daylight Savings Time when the Roller Skates, Jump Ropes and Hula Hoops appeared and the driveways were decorated with elaborately chalk-drawn Hop Scotch diagrams, both squares and spirals.
- And we played with: Silly Putty, Slinkys, Play Doh, Marbles, Baseball cards, Jack Knives (yes!), Stilts, Kites, Water Pistols, Old Maid
- And not to be overlooked: Chinese Checkers, Parcheesi, Checkers, Chutes and Ladders, Tinker Toys, Krazy Ikes, Mr. Potato Head (and we used real potatoes), Tiddly Winks.

1955 CLUE game board

Original Candy Land Game Board
And then there were a bunch of Simpler Toys from a Simpler Time.
Posted in Thursday's Top Ten | Tagged Ball and Jacks, Bill Ding, Candyland, Chinese checkers, Clue, Cootie, Hopscotch, Hula Hoop, J.&E. Stevens Co. Parcheesi, June Allyson, kites, Mr. Potato Head, Old Maid, paper dolls, Pick Up Stix, Play Doh, Rhonda Fleming, Roller Skating, Shirley Temple, Silly Putty, Skipping rope, Slinky, stilts, Susan, Tiddly Winks | 5 Comments »
October 20, 2010 by pbenjay

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Conspiracy Theory Wednesday
General Charles Cabell, whose brother Earl was the mayor of Dallas in 1963, was a former Air Force Intelligence Chief and CIA Deputy Director under Allen Dulles from 1953 to 1961. After meeting all night before the 1961 invasion of Cuba with E. Howard Hunt, David Phillips, and others, Cabell phoned President Kennedy at 4:00am to ask for U.S. air support for the Bay of Pigs landing. Kennedy’s refusal meant sending their proxy army to certain defeat. Soon after the failed invasion, Kennedy fired Dulles and Cabell, and threatened to “splinter the CIA into a thousand pieces and scatter it to the winds”. “Cabell never forgave the President, and criticized him publicly and often. On one such occasion in 1962, he was introduced to the Foreign Policy Association of New Orleans by Clay Shaw.
A heavy military intelligence presence pervaded Dallas on Nov. 22, 1963. That morning, FBI agent James Hosty met with an unnamed Army Intelligence officer. Secret Service agent Winston Lawson, who approved the motorcade route, was a member of Army Intelligence Reserve (AIR). Deputy Police Chief and AIR officer George Lumpkin rode on the motorcade’s pilot car. James W. Powell, another AIR officer, was stationed in front of the Texas School Book Depository, and was present when the rifle was found on the sixth floor. The local head of Army Intelligence was oil man Jack Chrichton, who recommended the first Russian interpreter used by the Secret Service in questioning Marina Oswald. The true nature of Lee Oswald’s connection to miliary intelligence remains obscure because Defense Intelligence Agency files on him were never shown to the Warren Commission and were later “routinely ” destroyed.
Week 21 and if you have been following this conspiracy you can see how all the “players” are coming together! And the names are getting more and more familiar as the conspiracy theory is leading us to higher and higher placed individuals. Just remember – every conspiracy is not a theory!
Posted in Conspiracy Theory Wednesday | Tagged Allen Dulles, E. Howard Hunt, John F Kennedy, Texas School Book Depository | 4 Comments »
October 19, 2010 by pbenjay

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Tasty Tidbits Tuesday
I just went for my annual check up and had what I already knew to be resoundingly confirmed: my cholesterol level is high. Actually much higher than it should be. It has been for over a year and every six months I tell my internist that I’m going to change my diet and bring it down. So last year I brought it down but not low enough. Now it’s even higher soooooo….. it looks like medication is the only route left to take. Therefore, I thought I would post a couple of great recipes for salmon and cod. And maybe I will BUT not today after all. It’s Fall and time to start thinking about warm, cozy food and as I was leafing through Martha Stewart‘s LIVING (October) I came across this yummlicious recipe for a grilled cheese sandwich – grown-up style!
Think of this iconic sandwich as a blank canvas for those leftovers in your refrigerator; a heel of cheese, arugula, a piece of two of prosciutto and a final spoonful of jam or harissa (THIS does NOT sound like my fridge!)
Cheddar, Gruyère, and Fontina are all fine melting cheeses that offer an adult layer of complexity, nuttiness, and sharpness. Swap in sourdough, or rye bread and the sandwich gets even more interesting – yet stays quite simple. Martha suggests 9 variations:
- Gruyère, Apple, and Sage on Rye
- Gruyère, Red Onion, Prosciutto, and Pepper on Rye
- Fontina, Harissa, and Pear on Rye
- Cheddar, Dijon Mustard, Bacon, Tomatoes, Avocado and Pepper on Sourdough
- Cheddar, Jalapeno, and Cilantro onWhite
- Gruyère, Oil-Packed Sardines, Peppedew Peppers and Arugula on Rye.
- Cheddar, Cherry Preserves, and Basil on White
- Fontina, Oil-Packed Tuna, and Relish on White
- Cheddar, Bacon, and Pickles on Sourdough
Butter (room temperature) the inside and outside of both slices of bread, making sure to cover the surfaces. Preheat a well-seasoned cast iron pan over MEDIUM heat. Add the assembled sandwich. Once the cheese starts to melt and the bread on the bottom is golden brown, flip the sandwich.(Avoid pressing with spatula, the goal is a fluffy sandwich, not a panino.) Grill until cheese has fully melted and the other side is golden brown.
Mustard spread on the inside complements most cheeses. Fruit preserves make a sweet and sometimes tart foil to savory cheeses.
Posted in Everyday Food, Marthaspeak, Tasty Tidbits Tuesday | Tagged Cheddar cheese, Cheese sandwich, dinner, food, lunch, Martha Stewart, panino, recipe, Red Onion, sandwich, Sandwiches, sourdough bread | 4 Comments »
October 19, 2010 by pbenjay

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Already touted as the best movie of the year, I really enjoyed seeing this film last week. Best movie? Well that may be a bit of a stretch… I think the most riveting aspect of The Social Network is the portrayal of Mark Zuckerberg by Jessie Eisenberg. He was quite amazing; deadpan face, a voice devoid of emotion, totally lacking in any social graces and barely socialized as a member of the human race – I really wondered if the real Mark Zuckerberg is or was like this. I mean this character is the geekiest of the geeks and the nerdiest of the nerds.
I think those of us who are extroverted and cognizant of society’s mores think those others like being that way; that it’s a choice to be weird and withdrawn. However, we’re wrong – this movie is an insight into the pain of the outcast, the overlooked and the obvious misfit.
There are lots of ways to draw attention to yourself and most people do it purposefully. For example, it was difficult to determine if Mark’s choice of shorts and sandals in the winter were an affectation ( I think not) or was he just so…., SO unaware? Or I can’t even think of the word or words that describe someone who is not just walking to the beat of a different drummer, he is actually in another band all together.
I love Facebook; it has enabled me to reconnect with old friends and neighbors; it has given me some interesting insights into my adult children’s world and I like playing Scrabble too. lol. I think what I find fun and exciting in Facebook is pretty universal…so how did this great social network have its genesis in the twisted and distorted vision of a young alienated college kid? I don’t know and he’s (Mark) not saying! The movie leads us to believe that basically the first incarnation of what later became Facebook was a website rating the hotness of female students in Harvard and surrounding schools.
Mark’s uncanny ability to write program and his roommate’s ability to write checks ultimately produced the web site that has rocked the world! And made Mark a billionaire and put some big bucks in a few other pockets too because this rise to financial stardom came with the price tag of the lost friendship of the only friend he had, attorney’s fees, lawsuits and a bunch of hangers-on who drank and drugged with his money. And while the booze flowed and the entourage grew larger and larger, he seemed oblivious to the fact that he was losing both control and his partner.
But it was all about the pain; the longing to be with a girl who would accept him for he was; a nerd and a geek and a very brilliant one at that. The website wasn’t a way to meet girls but rather a weapon; a means to strike back at all the girls who over the years had ignored him, humiliated him and rejected him.
There was one particular characteristic that I found oddly refreshing in a shocking sort of way. It was the way in which Mark spoke to people; seemingly unconscious that his words might hurt someone, or that his remarks might be inappropriate. He opened his mouth and what came out was exactly what was on his mind, he never minced words. In some instances, it was his own self-aggrandizement and his complete confidence in his own point of view that kept him from tempering his words, often insulting people with his own knowledge.
Interesting insight into Napster creator, Shawn Fanning and the seduction of Mark Zuckerberg by this high-flying wheeler-dealer Californian.
The last word – Facebook is a raving social network success in spite of Mark Zuckerberg, the most un-socialized persona I’ve ever come across.
Posted in From My Point of View - Personal commentary on Movies and Books | Tagged Facebook, Harvard, Harvard University, Mark Zuckerberg, Napster, Online Communities, Scrabble, Shawn Fanning, Social network | 6 Comments »
October 18, 2010 by pbenjay

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THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! I have a fall harvest of Six Word Memoirs from my readers to share with you all today. Bountiful it is!
- Life is good. Live for today! – Heather
- Sh_ _ _ y bidding war against neighbor/friend – Heide
- Semi-retirement? Where did it go? – Gail
- Please keep your germs to yourself – startingoveringermany
- My hands hurt, love yard work – Esther
- Fueled by spunk, gumption and vodka – Weez
- 8 more working days till vacation – Susan Celtic Lady
- I miss you Art, come home! – Esther
- I’m a Gigi again – Helloooo Frankie – Me
I don’t want to say I told you so but see how easy it is! Six words, no more, no less – One life – What’s yours?
Posted in Friends, Six Word Memoirs | Tagged Gail, Heide, Six-Word memoir, Susan H, Weez | 6 Comments »
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The Social Network
October 19, 2010 by pbenjay
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Already touted as the best movie of the year, I really enjoyed seeing this film last week. Best movie? Well that may be a bit of a stretch… I think the most riveting aspect of The Social Network is the portrayal of Mark Zuckerberg by Jessie Eisenberg. He was quite amazing; deadpan face, a voice devoid of emotion, totally lacking in any social graces and barely socialized as a member of the human race – I really wondered if the real Mark Zuckerberg is or was like this. I mean this character is the geekiest of the geeks and the nerdiest of the nerds.
I think those of us who are extroverted and cognizant of society’s mores think those others like being that way; that it’s a choice to be weird and withdrawn. However, we’re wrong – this movie is an insight into the pain of the outcast, the overlooked and the obvious misfit.
There are lots of ways to draw attention to yourself and most people do it purposefully. For example, it was difficult to determine if Mark’s choice of shorts and sandals in the winter were an affectation ( I think not) or was he just so…., SO unaware? Or I can’t even think of the word or words that describe someone who is not just walking to the beat of a different drummer, he is actually in another band all together.
I love Facebook; it has enabled me to reconnect with old friends and neighbors; it has given me some interesting insights into my adult children’s world and I like playing Scrabble too. lol. I think what I find fun and exciting in Facebook is pretty universal…so how did this great social network have its genesis in the twisted and distorted vision of a young alienated college kid? I don’t know and he’s (Mark) not saying! The movie leads us to believe that basically the first incarnation of what later became Facebook was a website rating the hotness of female students in Harvard and surrounding schools.
Mark’s uncanny ability to write program and his roommate’s ability to write checks ultimately produced the web site that has rocked the world! And made Mark a billionaire and put some big bucks in a few other pockets too because this rise to financial stardom came with the price tag of the lost friendship of the only friend he had, attorney’s fees, lawsuits and a bunch of hangers-on who drank and drugged with his money. And while the booze flowed and the entourage grew larger and larger, he seemed oblivious to the fact that he was losing both control and his partner.
But it was all about the pain; the longing to be with a girl who would accept him for he was; a nerd and a geek and a very brilliant one at that. The website wasn’t a way to meet girls but rather a weapon; a means to strike back at all the girls who over the years had ignored him, humiliated him and rejected him.
There was one particular characteristic that I found oddly refreshing in a shocking sort of way. It was the way in which Mark spoke to people; seemingly unconscious that his words might hurt someone, or that his remarks might be inappropriate. He opened his mouth and what came out was exactly what was on his mind, he never minced words. In some instances, it was his own self-aggrandizement and his complete confidence in his own point of view that kept him from tempering his words, often insulting people with his own knowledge.
Interesting insight into Napster creator, Shawn Fanning and the seduction of Mark Zuckerberg by this high-flying wheeler-dealer Californian.
The last word – Facebook is a raving social network success in spite of Mark Zuckerberg, the most un-socialized persona I’ve ever come across.
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Posted in From My Point of View - Personal commentary on Movies and Books | Tagged Facebook, Harvard, Harvard University, Mark Zuckerberg, Napster, Online Communities, Scrabble, Shawn Fanning, Social network | 6 Comments »