It’s a grand day to be Irish for sure…however, if you live in New York City like I do, then even if you’re not Irish, it’s grand day after all. The sun is shining, the City is full of green-clad, shamrock-adorned folks. Kids are wearing Irish cable knit sweaters and green deely-boppers on their heads. Kilts in every tartan you can imagine, politicians sporting green carnation boutineers and tams. The air has been filled all day with the wailing mournful sound of the bagpipes.
We went to the parade early today and took Finley with us. She enjoyed hanging onto the barricade at curbside and watched as bagpipers, horn-blowers and drummers marched by. The flags were flying, the bands marching, majorettes twirling and thousands of people walking up Fifth Avenue following the famous green center line.
It was the perfect day for a parade, not too hot, not too cold and not raining as it has in some past years. However, I knew it was only a matter of time before I would hear the familiar “I have to pee”. If you’ve been to a parade with a child, you know it’s inevitable and if you’re on Fifth Avenue in the middle of Manhattan, you know it’s impossible!
I gathered her up and we pushed our way through the crowds to get to a side street. We were in the East mid-60’s so I figured if we got to Madison, perhaps I would find a restaurant or store where she could use the rest room. As we were rushing past stores and shops, I was telling Finley, “no, not this one, no we can’t go in there, no bathroom”. With that inimitable wisdom of a three and a half year old, Finley said, “Why not, every place has a bathroom”. As they say, out of the mouths of babes! After a two block hike with little Finny repeating her needs to me in a plaintive voice, I spied Bar Italia and walked in and said to the hostess at the door that I needed to take her (Finley) to the bathroom. She looked at me and smiled and said, “I’m sorry, the rest rooms are only for our customers”. I was furious! I looked at her and said in a loud voice, “That’s ridiculous and it’s illegal” and swept past her carrying Finley and walked right through the entire restaurant to the back, asked a bus boy where the ladies room was and carried Finny in. I noticed someone had left a Dior compact on the vanity so on my way out, for a final coup de grace, I slapped the compact down on the counter in front of her and muttered, “someone left this in your ladies room” and stormed out.
Boy did that feel good! By the way, I don’t know whether it’s legal or not to restrict the use of a bathroom in a public restaurant and I certainly understand that restaurants don’t want derelicts or homeless people coming in to use the facilities; However, I’m a woman of a certain age carrying a toddler, really what horrible things might we have done in that bathroom?
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Flags At Half-Mast in New Jersey!? What is he thinking?
Posted in BY THE WAY, From My Point of View - Personal commentary on Movies and Books, tagged Bruce Springsteen, Chris Christie, Dionne Warwick, Frank Sinatra, Half-staff, Houston, Jersey, Kevin Spacey, New Jersey, United States, Whitney Houston on February 15, 2012| 5 Comments »
Governor Chris Christie has ordered that all flags in New Jersey be flown at half-mast the day of Whitney Houston’s funeral! OMG! Are you kidding me?
I believe flags should be flown half-mast for heroes and very important public officials of the state. I think Whitney Houston was beautiful, talented, probably a kind and loving person BUT I do not want my grandchildren to think she was a hero! She was a drug addict and you can call it a disease and that’s fine with me BUT it is not a disease that you contract like polio or cancer! It is a self-induced, self-inflicted affliction and the sick person has to own that. I tried to teach my own children to be responsible for their own actions and that every action has a consequence (good or bad).
So Governor Christie thinks she’s an icon of the state; That’s interesting, I never even knew she was from New Jersey and I have lived in the tri-state area my whole life. Sadly, more people associate Snooki from the show Jersey Shore as an icon and she doesn’t even come from New Jersey. I know Frank Sinatra came from New Jersey and that Bruce Springsteen comes from New Jersey. I loved
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songs, I loved that he was Italian (as I am) and that he came from Hoboken, like my grandmother did but he was certainly no hero! Whitney Houston is NOT a hero; She was a fantastic singer/entertainer with a remarkable God-given gift and unfortunately for her and us, she took her own life and has robbed us of her gift.
I certainly hope no other celebrity dies soon, as I cherish their talents more and more each year as yet another and another slips away. New Jersey has been the birthplace of so much talent that if we were to fly the flags at half-mast each time one of them died, we would hardly have full mast flown flags. Here’s just a handful of New Jersey born celebrities:
Bruce Sprinsteen: 1949
Jon Bon Jovi: 1962
Kevin Spacey: 1959
Meryl Streep: 1949
Judy Blume: 1938
Joe Piscapo: 1951
David Copperfield: 1956
Dionne Warwick: 1940
Ray Liotta: 1954
Jerry Lewis: 1926
Ice-T: 1958
Jack Nicholson: 1937
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